My husband doesn’t care for the holidays & he hates when I throw family get togethers so I just stopped because when I would have them he would be a grouch the whole time but I don’t want my daughter to miss out on family time just because he prefers it to be us all the time or because he’s in a bad mood the whole time when we do have something!
Yeah, he's gotta learn to get over that for her sake. But is it that you guys are doing anything with family or that he wants the holiday to be special at home with just the family? My mom and dad always disagreed about that, he wanted to be home on the holiday and visit others the next day and my mom wanted to be with her very large family.
Go to your family and leave him there 🤷🏼♀️