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Nykia
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How to Cope with Divorce Stress and Parenting Challenges?

Ladies I’m at my breaking point/rock bottom 😞. After years of cheating on me my soon to be ex husband told me he wants a divorce. I don’t mind giving it to him as I have been unhappy for a long time but we have 3 year old twins that don’t understand. He initiated the divorce but won’t leave the house. I don’t have a lot of money due to losing my job back in Maybecause of Covid. So I can’t leave right now and why should I have to uproot my twins?? I’m just getting back on my feet. He stays gone all day and comes in at night just to leave early before the kids get up. I get them dressed take them to school and pick them up. I’m tired and don’t know how much more I can take. Tonight I feel like I am about to have a heart attack. My chest hurts so bad and I know it’s stress. I don’t know what to do I feel like I am about to explode😩😭. Prayers please

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mujerstillregal

So RoyalМама сына (1 год)

You can put him on child support even when you guys live in the same house. I've seen it done before. If he won't talk, I'm definitely finding ways to make him miserable

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metalcoremomx4

M.Мама четверых детей

I'd honestly tell him, your serious about the divorce and you want to go through with it and that you need him out. I mean considering he isnr ever home, all he may need is that extra push to actually pack up and go. Dont ask to talk just be like hey, listen and let it all come out.

Then get assistance until your back on your feet as well as child support.

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘Мама троих детей

get child support

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nykia.882017

NykiaМама двоих (3 года, 3 года)

How if he won’t even leave my house to start the separation process 😥

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘Мама троих детей

@nykia.882017, simple you leave take the kids leave him to pay whatever go to a shelter they will help you with the rest and they will do all that too at the cs office... or the simple route is change the locks throw out his shit say bye

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nykia.882017

NykiaМама двоих (3 года, 3 года)

The courthouse said we have to be separated for one year

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nykia.882017

NykiaМама двоих (3 года, 3 года)

I have tried but he won’t talk

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mujerstillregal

So RoyalМама сына (1 год)

❤ I'm hoping he leaves soon and stop causing you so much stress. Have you talked to him about what he's doing? Have you gotten a lawyer so you can come to an agreement about your lives moving forward? Also know that if necessary, you can apply for child support.

I'm a petty Betty, so I'd make him getting a divorce hard, if he's causing me unnecessary stress, I'd want to make him feel some discomfort too.

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