I am wide awake and can’t go back to sleep. Guess got a lot on my mind and feel a little depressed about things. I love that I am going to have another baby and that my daughter and this baby will have the same daddy less stress on the holidays lol but I wish me and him was actually together I still love him but I just don’t think he cares about me the same way and not sure he ever will and that’s a hard pill to swallow. Things are just so complicated right now.
We havnt talked about it I am so emotional right now that I feel like if I bring it up I am just going to cry and not get out what I need to say.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
So sorry you're going through this , especially while pregnant ! Have you two talked any at all about getting back together ?? Are you still living with him at his parents house ? If so, and you two aren't getting back together.. I would save money, get your own place for you and the kids. It hurts more to stay in the same household with someone that u love, that doesn't reciprocate the same love back !