This has been ongoing since she was born. I honestly don’t think it’s anything to do with her sleep schedule I think it’s just her and her difficult personality. I have tried so many changes and nothing works. I never used to start out stressed putting her to bed but after an hour anyone would be stressed.
I can’t even be in her room without anxiety and if I spend a prolonged amount of time in there it turns into a full blown anxiety attack.

@maddoxsmama, ya that doesn’t sound right. I totally get the stress when they won’t go to sleep I have def been there before but at this point your gonna have to switch up what your doing or she will have difficulty with sleep likely for the rest of her life especially if this has been going on since birth. I recommend trying a set routine for sleep training such as the Ferber method, I did this with my youngest who had a great sleep schedule his whole life before getting his first cold and then refused to sleep. It was stressful but after a week we had no issues, my best friend used it on her daughter as well at 9 months and no issues her daughter was sleeping fine in a couple days (she had a hiccup a few months in and had to redo it tho).