After 10 years together and 8 years married, I have decided to end it. Lots of cheating went on that I just found out about, I thought he was changing only to
be hit with positive for chlamydia. Which I got tested in January and was negative. My heart hurts so
Much because I gave this man my everything, trust, heart, forgiveness. He will be getting his own place tomorrow and I feel so sick, he keeps asking if I will be with other people or can we try again he’ll go to
Sex addiction therapy and continue his counseling. I’m not scared to be alone but of losing him then I think did I really have him because he was out giving his body away to whom ever he wanted. He didn’t think about the consequences until now now he’s losing his wife and his son. I love him but this time I love myself and my son more and for this I have to let it burn and hurt I’m let him go. I do pray he changes for himself. I pray for him. If you love something let it go even if it hurts and maybe the journey they go on will be a life changing one and maybe one day we could love again.
You’re doing the right thing for you and your son, you deserve more. I am sorry you have to go through this it may hurt now but In time you’ll find your peace ❤️❤️
You are so strong for sharing this and standing up for yourself and saying no more. You deserve the world baby girl.
10 years, it hurts. I can’t eat and all I want to do is stair into the nowhere but I have to realize I have my son and I need to be better. Thank you all for your kind words. You ladies give me strength. Thank you.
Good for you girl! You got this! You will come out on top happy, healthier, and stronger!
Amen girl 🙏🏼 I hope you get through this ! It will be hard but he was too toxic and u should not have to deal with his actions and being hurt all the time ! Leaving him is definitely for the better
You got this!! I’m so proud of you for taking this step. And like you said, right now you need to love yourself and your son more than anything.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
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his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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Am I a bitch? My husband wanted to go to lunch with a girl who's a friend but her boyfriend wouldn't be there. I threw a fit and got upset and he didn't go, should I have let him?
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Hugs mama💜💜