Not sure if this will help. We just started a new reward system he gets an X when he’s really bad, hitting his sister, constant name calling. I give him some leeway hoping he will change his attitude. Anyway he gets up to 5, after 3 he looses dessert and after that he could loose video games or tv time or tablet. My goal is to show him good behavior gets good things, I don’t want to constantly be yelling at him. We also use stickers so show when he did something really good, helped his sister or changed his attitude. I also try to praise him for his good behavior!

My daughter is the same way. She doesn’t listen to anything I say ever, and no amount of discipline works. She just doesn’t care. It was worse when she was 4 and she’s almost 6 now so sometimes I can reason with her but it’s a daily battle. I usually threaten her with no iPad time or no dessert.

Look into southbaymommyandme on Instagram. She has so many great tips and has really helped me teach my son how to express himself in a healthier way but she’s also taught me how to communicate with my son in a way that will get results. It definitely takes time and a lot of practice but it has been so worth it.

My mom used to make me put my knees on hard rice in the corner for however long lol

I’m in the same boat with my daughter, except she doesn’t listen to ANYONE! I’m to the point where I don’t know what to do.

Does your mom give into her?? Also kids are often good for everyone else except their parents. They know and sense the unconditional love from them. Just be patient, consistent, and get your mom on board if she isn't.

Is your mom letting her get away with everything and you are upholding rules?