So a little TMI sorry! I'm going back and forth in my mind right now. My husband and I decided to…
So a little TMI sorry! I'm going back and forth in my mind right now. My husband and I decided to add a little spice in the bedroom tonight. During it he didn't let me know/or make a noise or face or anything letting me know he was done so I was still going and we decided to switch positions and we noticed the condom came out inside. I was able to get it out but it was probablyin there for a good 5 minutes or so before we noticed. So if thats the case it would still be a really low chance of getting pregnant right?
XryztalRoze·
Yes there is a chance.
Aylenrose··
Yeah just wondering how high of a chance. When I got it out there was still stuff in the condom so maybe we got lucky?
Nikki ·
If you aren’t planning to get pregnant I’d take plan b just incase! I wouldn’t risk it.
XryztalRoze··
@aylenrose I'm concerned that since you are of mixed emotional you will be always wondering "what if" if you take the Plan B and it will always come back to you. It's not an option for me at this point in my life but DH and I had an oops years before we were married and chose to use the Plan B then. And I have always wondered what would have happened. It weighs on my conscience and we still talk about the "what ifs" to this day. It's been more than 13 years...
Aylenrose··
yeah and after reading the side effects it makes me iffy. I know when I got the condom out there was still sperm in it so maybe we got lucky this time. I know emotionally I'd be pretty bummed after taking it just wondering what would of happened. We also found out his brother and wife are expecting their 1st child in March and I know they will be petty like we are trying to take away some of their spotlight if it turns out we are pregnant to since we already have two kids.
XryztalRoze··
They don't matter in this. Sorry if that seems rude, but it's true. That would be beyond rude of them. Shame on them if they treat you like that. Any baby is a BLESSING in the family. I don't try to pressure people with decision making bc it's not my choice, but if you were someone I know and I had the choice to make for you, I would be against the Plan B and say pray on it. Leave it in God's hands. I wish I had the same beliefs in my younger days as I have had in the last 10 years of my life. Life is precious.
MassMomma16·
Definitely a chance. Wouldn’t say it’s really low.
Aylenrose··
Yeah I was just trying to think that since there was still sperm in the condom maybe none escaped.
MassMomma16··
true but literally millions of sperm and only takes one plus it sounds like perfect timing with your ovulation. But remember even in perfect conditions/timing, you only have 20% chance.
Aylenrose··
so true I just have always been able to get pregnant super easy so I'm a little on edge. My husband and I talked about it and we are letting whatever happens happen. If I end up pregnant that's ok and if not that's ok to.