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Dayana
Dayana
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)

Is it a bad thing to not want to breast feed? I’m not saying I won’t try but if she doesn’t latch on I won’t be upset…

Is it a bad thing to not want to breast feed? I’m not saying I won’t try but if she doesn’t latch on I won’t be upset ... happened with my first and I was so depressed about it this time whatever happens happens

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xryztalroze

XryztalRoze

As much as I am 100% an advocate for breastfeeding, I will tell you that it is truly your body and your choice. I will recommend that you at least let the baby have the colostrum since it is will benefit baby greatly. If after that you say no, then let it be no. A depressed mama is not a mama at her best. Best of wishes for a healthy you and a healthy baby.

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d.c

DayanaМама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)

Thank you 😊 I’m planning on doing at least a month or two just how I did with my son hoping for the best 🤞🏽💕

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proudmommyofthree_

- Caleen 🇯🇲Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

No not at all I prefer formula feeding my boobs are just entirely too small and my kids wouldn't latch at all and showed no interest I do believe fed is best!

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del_1614990410_buildyourtable

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No it isn't a bad think at all.

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nikkim

Nikki

I have 3 kids. Didn’t breastfeed them. I’ve tried. But it didn’t work out. I didn’t feel guilty either. Fed is best.

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somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

Nope fed is best!

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massmomma16

MassMomma16Мама дочки (3 года)

I had a hard time with my first due to supply and latch issues. It was so stressful and I struggled the entire 6 weeks. I was really depressed about it and shouldn’t have been that hard on myself. If I have another, I won’t stress like that again. Do what is best for you!

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thebthatdontcare

.Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

I didn’t breastfeed either of mine and not guilty at all 🤷‍♀️

I thought about it but I hate my boobs being touched but either way my milk never came in with either so either way I wouldn’t have been able to

As long as baby is fed that’s what matters

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caffeinequeen

M_🖤Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)

Nope not at all. Like you with my first I felt guilty I couldn’t breast feed him.

My second I tried but there was a lot of complications with me after labor and she wouldn’t latch right. But I wasn’t as heart broken. Fed is best! 💜

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lucky18

N👼🏾💙A💕👧🏾A💕👧🏾Мама троих детей

Nope. I felt this way and continued breastfeeding knowing that I hate it. I started giving my little one formula little by little. I felt guilty at first but I've been better. My oldest has been a challenge weaning but we're getting there.

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d.c

DayanaМама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)

You ladies are awesome 🤩🙌🏽

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professor.hashbrown

BeanМама двоих (младенец)

No. If you don't want you, you don't have to. There's no reason to be guilty. Latch or no latch lol.

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starrmarie

StacyМама двоих (младенец)

@starrmarie, facts girl. So don’t stress it. Long as the babies eat. It’s all good.

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starrmarie

StacyМама двоих (младенец)

This happened to my with my 2nd. She wasn’t latching. I got so depressed I felt like I failed. But I got the support of my family and it’s been better since. I mean she drink formula. I guess I wasn’t producing or my body was to exhausted.

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d.c

DayanaМама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)

Yeah I took it really hard cause it was my first and I didn’t know any better but my body didn’t start producing until a week later I was so upset and depressed felt exactly like that like I failed now having a toddler and soon to have a newborn I don’t want to put myself through that stress so I’m hoping my body doesn’t let me down but if it does I’ll be prepared

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starrmarie

StacyМама двоих (младенец)

@d.c, girl I’m on the same boat lol. I have a 4 year old and a 2 month old. I didn’t produce till about a week later too but it wasn’t a lot. It was less than an ounce. I felt horrible. Like how can I breast feed one but the other I can’t. I was so sad I cried all the time until my fiancé kept me thinking positive. Now I’m okay with my baby drinking formula because I understand that sometime women can’t produce. Doesn’t mean you are less of a mom or woman.

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d.c

DayanaМама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)

@starrmarie, I know that’s right we do the best we can ☺️💪🏽 and your baby will be healthy regardless my son had breast milk for only a month the rest was formula and he’s perfectly fine as long as your baby is happy and fed that’s all that matters 😌💕

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