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Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

Hi everyone, i hope you guys are all are well and healthy. I need to ask you guys because I really dont know what to do.…

Hi everyone, i hope you guys are all are well and healthy. I need to ask you guys because I really dont know what to do. My 2 year old wakes up middle of the night crying and when i mean crying i mean historically crying no matter what i do calms him down noothing he doesnt even want me to hold him . He drives himself to a point where he is crying so hard he turns red his breathing changes looks like he is having a panic attack. He has no medical indications he is not on any medication. His doctor thinks its a toddler stage , but my mom instinct says something is wrong I literally almost took him to a hospital i was so scared he wouldn’t breathe. Please anyone know anything any advice 🙏🏻

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hakunamatata09

HakunaМама дочки (3 года)

Hey momma, it sounds like night terrors. I went through this with my daughter. I was worried too but her pedi assured me it was night terrors unless other symptoms where involved. She would cry and cry. Its a stage they go thru. It shall pass. My pedi recommended no tv 2 hours before bedtime. Maybe you can try that ?

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salogogo

SallyМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

We tried that and doesnt work sadly he is not like other kids putting him to sleep has always been a struggle he is freaking out when he wants to sleep . Like im sleepy what do i do.

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themothafuckinladymarlow

LindenМама сына (4 года)

Poor baby is havin night terrors. My son went through a phase too.

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mumma_0fo2

Lucky Mommy Мама двоих (младенец)

My son has night terrors rear but when he do i try to get in there befor my husband runs me over haha but i guess were both in there and he is back to feeling better and we take him to our room to watch his favorite tv shows n ask him what happened he always points up and says upstairs our Addict or how ever u spell it is by our room so im not to sure but my husband go up to show him nothing up there

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salogogo

SallyМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

We tried his favorite cartoon he loves when i sing but he cries even more he wont respond to why he is crying and its almost every night

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mumma_0fo2

Lucky Mommy Мама двоих (младенец)

@salogogo sometimes when my son wont stop cry i blow n his face a little it calms him down and he has his favorite favorite stuff bear with him ❤ i say to him i think i hear mama bear saying something oh she tell mama she wants a hug lets do a big bear hug

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mamaxofxtwo

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I’m up right now at 3am bkz my daughter wakes up crying in the middle of the night too every other night .. idk why but she won’t stop crying unless I give her, her cup with milk 😏 ..

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salogogo

SallyМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

With my son milk taking him outside nothing works i tried putting him in car he loves car rides he flipped out even more 😩

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mamaxofxtwo

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Oh dang lol both of my brothers sleepwalk and talk In their sleep , one of them runs around the house with his eyes wide open looking for my mom all frightened and then wen my mom puts him back to sleep he wakes up confused not knowing he even did that .. super weird

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thatregalmujer

LivinintheeastdreaminboutthewestМама сына (2 года)

If it's night terrors, he probably wouldn't wake up. We usually don't wake up from night terrors. Does he open his eyes? Or is he just crying and inconsolable but his eyes are still shut? Although he could still be asleep with his eyes open.

No disrespect to your mom, but I think you'd be jumping the gun taking him to the hospital. Are there any other symptoms? Fever? And just as a check, is he getting new teeth?

A whole lot of hysterical crying could lead to him being unable to catch his breath, so the breathing thing is most likely linked to the crying.

I'm so sorry, I don't have any good/useful advice for you 😔

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (5 лет)

@thatregalmujer exactly

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thatregalmujer

LivinintheeastdreaminboutthewestМама сына (2 года)

@massgirl lol, I changed it a bit, but I'm not sure how to reword the eyes being closed part, so I'll give it some thought, and then edit again

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salogogo

SallyМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

Thank you for response. His eyes are open and just cries and cries i try to calm him down talk to him that mommys there everything is okay i turn the lights on try to calm him down . I just felt bad why i said hospital because he seemed like something was wrong he was crying for an hour or more i was just breaking down

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jessicalaneee

Jessica LGМама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

It sounds like night terrors. My oldest had them st 2 and nothing could calm him down. I'd just hold him and repeatedly tell him I'm here and everything will be ok. If he started turning red or not breathing I'd blow on his face and hed catch his breath. It's pretty common in young children. It only last a few months with mine and it wasnt every night, maybe a weekly thing.

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salogogo

SallyМама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

I really hope it passes soon it’s breaking my heart watching him go through this so often

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