For some reason I feel like everything I do and say make people mad everywhere I go ! Everyone I talk to ! Why am I that annoying!
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Thank you I am surrounded by shelter staff and that's it for now and laywers I guess that's the reason they just dont wanna be at work I guess.
@verguinia I had somone tell me when if u come across somone and they seem short or rude or having a bad day its probably not ur fault its redirected frustration. Like if Sally walks by you and you say hi and she grunts or whatever and you think she hates me or what I do... but really Sally's alarm didnt go off she didn't get her coffee and the car didn't start. It was nothing to do with you but it felt that way. Keep ur chin up
@hakunamafuckitall your so right !!! I gotta relax the thing Is I always get in trouble at the shelter they mad I got too much packages or the bathroom had a leak or the floor I wash is too wet or I have to start washing cloth in there loundry not at home in my bathtub and air dry they got mad I did that I just always get talked to about doing something wrong by staff I even got a box of chips and wrote a note saying thanks ty I all staff for thier help and stuff to ease the mood but they still came in and was mad I had some water on the bathroom floor
Are you sure it’s not just you getting in your head? I can’t tell you how many times I think I’m annoying someone when I’m not. And I suffer from RBF which means people always think I’m annoyed by them.
@littleonemorning thank you I'm trying to transition to having a more serious look rather then a push over one and it's hard
@verguinia, why don’t you see if you can get your hands on some self confidence books? Even YouTube videos. When you feel good about yourself, it shows!
@littleonemorning ok ok your right I need to change ! I cant live like this
Who's to say you're "that annoying" and that the other people aren't just impatient and unkind? Unfortunately our society is becoming less caring at an unforeseen rate and kind people are getting harder to find.
@xryztalroze yes I am in the shelter and I do have to work on me ,I talk too much, I be tooo honest alot , i share too much, i do show excitement inappropriate times ,i havent been controlling my emotions lately and the nice moms here at the shelter are kind it's the staff that hates me
@verguinia I have all the same "issues" but they are very appreciated by the right people in the right circumstances. Having a heart and child like honesty makes you a target for some but it's a trait few have but more should have in my opinion. I'm happy the other moms are kind. Perhaps the problem truly isn't you but the staff not being happy with their position. They aren't there to be your friend but they should be kinder. I am sorry!!!
@xryztalroze thank you and yes I have to realize I cant expect people to be my friend I do that alot too
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Sometimes It feels that way when its not like that I get like that to and start feeling a little bit like eeyore. And if ur talking really annoyed ppl maybe ur not surrounding ur self with the right company. Im sorry ur feeling this way