I saw this in a group. What's your opinion?
Ok ladies y’all help me out 😭so my fiancé asked would I use a strap on him bout two months ago I cringed at the thought. Later I decided to give it a try and my fiancé were trying to spice up our relationship so I tried fingering him in his but . He liked it a lot . So the other night during sex he can’t put the blue with a dildo . I went ahead and we used it on both him and I . So he would lock up in the bathroom which concerns me . So last night we used it again just on him tho . I told him he seem like he enjoyed it a little to much . So I asked him had he been using it on his own he said yes . I asked him how often he said everyday because it feels good . I asked is he gay or thinking about being with a man he said no . But I can’t shake the thought . Am I wrong ?
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If my DH wanted to try it I wouldn’t necessarily think he’s gay or bi.
If he locked himself in the bathroom I’d be hurt about it. I wouldn’t be comfortable performing it so he’d have to pleasure himself though.. So.. IDK.
Why does liking butt stuff mean he’s confused, or gay? This is baffling to me. I enjoy dresssing in a costume. But that doesn’t make me a plushy 🤦🏼♀️
PRETTY sure he's confused or just figuring out his sexuality. NO straight man I know is going to lock themselves in a bathroom so they can buttfuck themselves. A finger or a toy introduced into a romp sesh in one thing but lockin yourself in a room to be alone is a WHOLE other.
@leonardsquared, I didn’t say that he did. Can you read? But I also wouldn’t think he’s gay if he wanted to.
Maybe he's bisexual. Maybe he just likes butt play. They need to sit down and have a conversation about it. She needs to lay out her concerns.
Is this about you or just a post you saw? My advice would be to just have a very open conversation with your SO. No one on the internet can tell you what that means.
I could be wrong but I think he is bi or bi curious. I understand that anal is suppose to be great for men but the fact that he needs it every day concerns me. When he gets used to the toy and it doesn't satisfy him he will graduate to men.
I don't think that's true. Its not like a gateway drug. If someone likes being fingered, does that mean eventually they'll want to be fingered by a different gendered person than they usually prefer? No. Some people's kink is just different
@two.tiny.texans I see what u saying but u see at first they started with a finger. That wasn't enough they had to go to a dildo. When you use toys your body gets used to them then you want something else because that can satisfy you no more. Next most likely will be a new toy or experiment with the real thing.
There actually is a lot of feelings in the butthole.
Its very possible he isnt gay and just likes the bumtouches. 🤷♀️ they make lbutthole things for men maybe she be more comfortable if it was a dick going in there 🤔 maybe is gay and not comfortable saying anything yet. Im not sure if blasting his sexual business online is the right way to go about it tho.
Considering his actions-
I'd say theres possibility more to this, than just feeling good, since he's not asking her to be a part of it.
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Why does liking butt stuff mean he’s confused, or gay? This is baffling to me. I enjoy dresssing in a costume. But that doesn’t make me a plushy 🤦🏼♀️