I really feel like shit right now. My baby daddy left me for good like 2-3 weeks ago He said maybe it was best because we probably aren't ready really after 6 fucking years and that we have to be realistic that there is no future. Well yesterday Sunday we celebrated my daughter's first birthday and It was the most uncomfortable day ever he didn't cross one word with me. Was a jerk I was talking with my Ex brother n law and his gf instead. I just feel horrible I thought we would have been able to be like other parents that are no longer together but yet make the best of it. But nope. It hurts because I still love him no one can forget 6 yrs over night. But apparently his love for me was never real because he seems to be very happy and was texting with someone at my dinner table. 💔💔💔 I just needed to vent please no rude comments thank you!
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@blessedmama121619 I was gonna say that his reasons /excuses for yall not being together anymore sounds like a cop out because he found someone else that interests him. Its completely rude to come to the birthday party and have the audacity to text this chic while sitting at yalls table. But you can believe this, it may not be anytime soon... or maybe it will be, you just never know... but Karma is a bitch !!
Thanks love. Yeah it was and I hadn't talked to him in a few days till today and I asked him since when have they been talking and he said he didn't have to give me explanation. You know how bad I feel because I did really love him. And for him to just leave his kids like that and get with someone else that shit hurts
@blessedmama121619 I know it does, I've been through it before. Thankfully, not with Tim. But exes from the past, I picked some real winners lol let me tell ya
Happy birthday to your little one and I'm so sorry you're going through this. Losing someone after 6 years is alot of heartache, especially when they act like they never cared or loved to begin with. It hurts so deeply. But you got this girl, time will heal your heart. I hope you both can coparent the right way, with no hard feelings, for the kids sake. They need that from both of yall. Stay strong mama, if you need me, message me.
Thanks hun. I appreciate it so much. And he doesn't seem to care didn't hear from him at all yesterday. The way he acted that night was wrong and made me feel like crap. He had told me before that he wanted to get along and have a good relationship with me for the kids but he's not coming through with his word. But it's all good I'm used to him acting like a dick. I'm honestly thinking of telling him to just send me the money in the mail and that will be the end of it. He doesn't spend time with our 4 yr old anyway. So what's the use of him evening come by to see them he can spend his time with the new bitch he's talking too
You’ve had issues with him for years. You deserve better and once the hurt subsides you will see this was the day your life changed for the best. You can and will find better and you too will be happy. Focus on your babies and keep busy!
Sorry you're going through this, and as much as it sucks that you're no longer together, with time your heart will heal. Stay positive and make this time with your children really count from all of you. They will need you more than ever since their father is no longer making himself part of the family. Your baby is beautiful and will be ok as long as you meet her needs. Idk what to say except to stay strong and link up with other positive moms/dads her are single parents to see how they over came the pain to move forward. A safe and loving single parent home will almost always be better than a broken two parent home. Do your best, be civil, and give it time. It's only been a few weeks. He may surprise you with time and be able to coparent with you successfully. If not, don't let it keep you from being the best mommy you know how to be. Hugs mama! And happy birthday to your sweet baby!
Thank you love for your word of encouragement I appreciate it
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Just find someone better fuk that loser get child support and move on ..it’s a new beginning don’t act like it’s sad even tho it is for your daughter but if it’s that easy for him he never loved you once u make him pay that he will disappear then you will know his intentions 💯💯