@myargentinandmystomachhurts smh, some people, with friends like them who needs enemies?

@thatregalmujer, I hate to say this but I’m still friends with her lol. Even though she’s been very offensive with me in the past, I still care about her but I vent about her on here sometimes lol. She has her click of friends so she’s not super close with me but we talk from time to time. She definitely became a better person now because of her husband since he’s a very nice person and I feel that she matured more because of him. I believe she was like that because of her mother. Her mother is a miserable person, so I feel like she copied and grow up with a lot of her mothers bad traits.

She was on my case a lot back then because my sons father was on drugs. (I didn’t know that at first. I found out around the time I got pregnant. Even though I don’t accept that stuff, I was silly and tried to work out the relationship with him. Instead when I saw that he wasn’t serious and didn’t care about the pregnancy, I made the right choice cutting him out of my life) She sweared up and down that my son was gonna be born deformed, autistic and so much more. I told her at that time before he was born and repeatedly after he was born, that he’s fine because I’m not the one taking drugs. I also let her know that just because a child can be born with something isn’t only because of drugs. It can be genetic or a number of things. Her solution was get rid of him. Get an abortion. If you don’t abort him then give him up for adoption, you don’t want a sick kid holding you back. For a while I really felt angry with her. Sometimes remembering those times bothers me deep down because I couldn’t vent to her 100% all the things she said to me. She probably forgot most of the stuff she said. Her being a mother now, I wonder if she sees now how it isn’t easy to just say give up your child. I hope she understands this now and why I fought so hard to have my child when certain friends back then pushed me to do it because of her. I cut off contact with most friends that time.

People can be jerks like that. I know someone that swore up and down that my son was gonna be autistic. She kept throwing that at me before he was born. When he was 1 years old and I had a conversation with that person about how he loves dancing, she said oh children with autism love to dance. She kept throwing that at me. Fast forward to a few years later and guess what? Her son has autism. Crazy right?

I was so offended when she kept saying that because she wasn’t a doctor and was saying it as a matter of fact. If my son had autism I would love him no matter what but I felt like the way she kept going on about it was being very condescending and taking a jab at me. Crazy how it bit her in the ass. Like don’t play god with other people’s kids, focus on your own. That’s what I wish I could tell her.🤦🏻‍♀️

Good job for your lo! And good job momma! My lo only knows how to sing her ABC's, she hasn't been able to identify the letters yet. It drives me nuts that little ate being pushed so hard or that others are basically stating what you littles do know isn't enough. My daughter's ped wanted me to make my lo start writing her alphabet bc they need it for school already.

And my nephews teacher wants my 6yo nephew on medication bc he can't sit still in class (he is in kindergarten with 15mins for lunch and 15 mins for recess, a 45 min bus ride to and from school, no additional breaks). I don't know many kids that can sit still almost 9 hrs a day.

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Oh my gosh. He could be dyslexic?!? What a moron.

Good lord, people just need to keep their mouths shut! Some kids confuse those letters all the way up through second grade and it’s still considered developmentally appropriate. 😑

They prob don’t have kids. It’s very very normal especially his age.