I am so upset. How would you feel dealing with a compulsive liar? So most of the pandemic my cousin has been staying…
I am so upset. How would you feel dealing with a compulsive liar? So most of the pandemic my cousin has been staying over here. She lives nearby but we didn’t mind having her over and spend time with her during the pandemic. She hasn’t been here in 2 weeks now and I know that something weird must be going on. I just found out today that she’s in another state hanging out with her ex plus some of our other relatives. She was planing to do all of that and not let us know who she’s in contact with so she could come back here and risk all of us. Not only that but I also found out that when she wasn’t here for a weekend sometime last month, that she lied about being at home. She also traveled and was in contact with people so for all I know we could have been exposed.
Very irresponsible on her part. I’m so upset. I guess she doesn’t care if she gets my parents sick or my kids sick. We told her we don’t want her here now. I cannot stand her lying. My aunt, her mother has been staying over and she helps cover up for her daughter. She knew where she was and kept it hush hush. I want to give her the boot too. I’m so upset. I feel like I clean my hands for nothing and wear a mask for nothing while having these knuckle heads risk us but keeping everything hush hush and living a double life. How can we be careful with careless people like that?
AJ·
@basimahummiof3, I’m sorry that you have to deal with that as well. It’s tough. My cousin learned how to be like that because of her mother. My aunt constantly lies.
RiaRia🙏❤·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 12 лет)
Whoa. This has got to be truly frustrating. I'm truly sorry that this is even something you and your family are having to endure. This definitely seems tough but you are making the best decision for yourself and your family.
AJ·
@riasm85, thank you! Yeah I’m gonna wait for 2 weeks and then I’m gonna do the antibodies test first to see if I was already exposed to it. Then I have to figure out if I should get the test or not for the virus. Since my aunt had contact with her son in law over the weekend. He was in a party a few weeks ago and has contact with a lot of people. So for now I’m gonna count 2 weeks and see if my aunt will have any strange symptoms or not and then go from there to figure out what to do. It’s frustrating.
RiaRia🙏❤··
Мама двоих (5 лет, 12 лет)
Smh..just the fact that you're in a situation that you may have to wait for symptoms or take a first test and a second..goodness! People's negligence is no joke.. Prayers that everything is just fine and this was merely a heads up for you and your loved ones so you all can stay safe.
AJ·
@riasm85, thank you. I hope so too. I hope that we will be fine. If I end up having the virus I really wish that I would be lucky to not have any symptoms but I don’t think I will be lucky like that. When I get a flu I usually have a fever for a week lol so I imagine if I’m gonna get this virus sometime then I might get the bad symptoms with the fever lasting 2 weeks or more and shortness of breath. 😭 I really really don’t want that. I’ve been taking precautions since February lol. All the appointments I had for my son and I that month, I canceled because I didn’t want to go out of my way and be around groups of people. Then not long after that’s when everything shut down in the beginning of March.
RiaRia🙏❤··
Мама двоих (5 лет, 12 лет)
Well just think positive and continue to do the best you can and taking proper precautions. Everything is going to be ok😉
AJ·
I’m so upset like if my college closed down in February for distance learning and my sons school in the first week of March, we didn’t take all these precautions for nothing. I’ve been careful when I go to the store to always wear a mask. When we order food I put on a mask to open the door, sanitize the bags, clean the containers. Not letting any other family and friends over and it’s not fair that my aunt and cousin put us at risk.
It goes to show me that if a zombie apocalypse happened or aliens took over like the movie quiet place, they would get us killed. 😂 I can’t trust their asses lol. 🤣
RiaRia🙏❤··
Мама двоих (5 лет, 12 лет)
I saw that movie..oh my goodness😲😫
AJ·
@riasm85, I hope so. I’m crossing my fingers that we will be ok. If everything is ok with my aunt having contact, then I have to wait and see if my cousin will come back because even if I don’t want her here, my mother or aunt may open the door to her so that will be another 2 weeks of waiting to see smh. Very selfish on their part.
RiaRia🙏❤··
Мама двоих (5 лет, 12 лет)
But it's your home though. What YOU say goes!
AJ·
@riasm85, lol that movie was scary right! I was so sad and upset when they didn’t show the second one in the theaters. I was one week away from seeing it back in February in a theater near me and then they closed everything down. If I would have had a chance to see it, I would have been ok because that theater isn’t crowded. When I saw the sonic movie for Valentine’s Day, only 5 people were in the theater and spread out. Everyone already was socially distancing in there without even knowing yet lol. 😂
AJ·
@riasm85, I wish I could make the rules but I cannot 100%. It was 8 of us staying together during this pandemic but since my cousin isn’t here it’s 7 now. Im still mad that my cousin went to pa without us knowing last month. So she tried to get away with it now. Thank god we found out. We are in nyc so the outbreak was bad over here. Things are better now but I still know that we aren’t in the clear yet. Now what’s happening with Arizona and Texas was happening to us from March up until the beginning of June. I hope everything will be ok with the other states now. 🤞🏻
RiaRia🙏❤··
Мама двоих (5 лет, 12 лет)
I know right. I have family that lives in AZ and we live in Texas so we've been doing our best of staying clear of too much traveling activity. We've been at home so much (except little trips to Starbucks here and there..drive thru only) my back yard is starting to look like a theme park with all the water inflatables we've ordered😂..i miss my family so much. My b-day is in August but looks like that trip is canceled.
Hang in there girl k I know you are going through a lot especially with a full house but with a little optimism you'll start to find some peace of mind🙏❤
AJ·
@riasm85, aww I bet it looks really awesome though! The Starbucks here doesn’t let us go in yet but you can order from door dash.