Okay I need help. My step daughter is almost 11, she told me tonight she thinks she has been having…
Okay I need help. My step daughter is almost 11, she told me tonight she thinks she has been having discharge. She is a VERY secretive person and she is super anxious so even her just telling me had her crying. I recommended sharing it with her mom as she goes there on weekends and I want her mom prepared. She begged me not to say anything. Idk whether to keep her trust or atleast give her mom a heads up. She doesnt want to tell her mom as her mom doesnt keep it to herself and shes afraid she will tell her grandma or say something in front of someone she is also worried to tell her mom because her mom makes a huge deal out of it and goes into extreme detail and she doesnt like that.
Mandy·
Don't tell him mother. Tell her how to take care of herself. In the bathroom and just leave it at that...but does she have her period yet?...if she doesn't maybe just say to her mom in another week or two...hey "step" is showing signs of getting her period soon, just want you to know in case it happens when she's with you.
Just Me·
Мама четверых детей
I agree with everyone else.
Tayler·
Thank you ladies I just didnt know if I should give her mom a warning so if she starts it she will be prepared if shes there and also there's a HIGH chance she will start crying, screaming and hyperventilating when it happens. I've given her pantiliners and told her i would buy thinner pads this weekend
Jeanetta ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
If she wants it between y’all don’t tell anyone you want her to know that she can come to you and trust you !! If you break that she may not come to you again !! Tell her to how keep herself clean more than ever now and let her know if she has any other lady things going on to not be afraid to come to you
leslie·
Мама сына (3 года)
I wouldnt tell her mom about it, she has a hard time opening up about that stuff and obviously trusts you with comming to you. Talk to her about it and how she can take care of it, etc and if she had any concerns or questions she can come to you. She will tell her mom when and if she is ready.