Ladies: just had my middle school/high school boyfriend (1st love) message me on fb!! I havent seen him in over 10years, we did exchange hellos on fb but nothing more. We did have a moment over 10 years ago, when his mom passed away.. we hung out made out a little and spoke one time after that.. and I stopped answering his texts. Well here he is again, I know something is up with him..as I feel I been his person to go too, when things go bad. He came off as he was trying to meet up or something .. and I put him in his place, let him know I'm very happy with my fiance and my family, and were friend nothing more. I know something up, he has 3 kids now and a fiance.. what do you ladies think about this? Also the crazy thing is, my niece had just asked me about my ex's and I talked about him...and them boom he messages me. Fucking weird. Either way I'm nipping it in the bud, and sending him on his way.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Nothing like finding out your husband lied about where he was last night. I guess that will be a fun conversation when he gets up today. But idk when that will be since he went to bed at 6 something this morning. Also found out he added a girl on his snapchat that I don't know. Just really need to find something that will keep my mind off of all of this until I can talk to him about it. 😞
So over this feeling!
Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The...
So I just went through my boyfriend phone while he was sleep & im pretty sure we all know what I found....him talking to multiple other females in a relationship type of way. When he wakes up should I act normal? Or confront him about it right then & there.?