I need some serious advice! So I'm 34 weeks 5 days . I have been having contractions since last Friday. Well last night they are start actually becoming regular. 7pm to 130 am 10 mins apart , 130 to 630 5 mins , and then 3 mins apart. So I get to ob assessment and do all there normal checks and I'm not dilating, honestly I knew this because I can't dilate naturally. I couldn't with my 1st and mom had the same issues with both her kids. they want her to bake longer because shes still "small " which shes measuring 36 weeks and over 6 pounds. So they give me fluids and pain meds ( didn't help only made me feel like I was on the tipsy teacup ride at Disney with hot flashes and itching) then they gave me valium to calm me because they keep stressing me out and it was stressing Star. They got the contractions to slow down to 5 to 10 mins apart and sent me home. I just want to know if there is anything else I can do. These contractions are intense and I can't just relax. Or had anyone been sent home during active labor that's 5 to 10 minutes apart.