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Chicana♥️
Chicana♥️
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I don’t seem to understand why all of a sudden my oldest son donor decides to look for him It only took him 16 years…

I don’t seem to understand why all of a sudden my oldest son donor decides to look for him

It only took him 16 years almost 17

My son has rejected him and made it clear he wants nothing to do with him but he continues to insist

It’s annoying

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chicana

Chicana♥️Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

He’s been rejecting him for a while

He wants nothing to do with his donor

He’s in great health with a great job so I don’t understand why all of a sudden he’s coming around for

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fairykarmamomma

FairyKarmaMommaМама сына (5 лет)

I think your son is doing what’s right for him right now. That’s a lot to process at any age and it’s very common that absentee parents show up that 1-2 years before the kids turn 18. Donor needs to back off and give him that space, period.

But, how is donors health? People who suddenly get a heavy health diagnosis of some sort will go out and try to right their wrongs so to speak.

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thatregalmujer

LivinintheeastdreaminboutthewestМама сына (1 год)

That's exactly what I was gonna say, he needs a kidney

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beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice

What's It To You?Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

Because the hard part is over. He doesn't have to raise him. He doesn't have to change diapers, bathe, feed, etc.

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thatregalmujer

LivinintheeastdreaminboutthewestМама сына (1 год)

@queenbitch 15?! 😱 giirrrl... 21? 🤨 giiirrrl

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beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice

What's It To You?Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

@queenbitch oh yikes then there's the whole pedophile/Ephebophile aspect.

He couldn't do much from prison either honestly.

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chicana

Chicana♥️Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@thatregalmujer, yeah exactly

I gave up my friends school everything to become a mom and got a job

But he couldn’t give up anything

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