I don’t seem to understand why all of a sudden my oldest son donor decides to look for him
It only took him 16 years almost 17
My son has rejected him and made it clear he wants nothing to do with him but he continues to insist
It’s annoying
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I think your son is doing what’s right for him right now. That’s a lot to process at any age and it’s very common that absentee parents show up that 1-2 years before the kids turn 18. Donor needs to back off and give him that space, period.
But, how is donors health? People who suddenly get a heavy health diagnosis of some sort will go out and try to right their wrongs so to speak.
That's exactly what I was gonna say, he needs a kidney
Because the hard part is over. He doesn't have to raise him. He doesn't have to change diapers, bathe, feed, etc.
@queenbitch 15?! 😱 giirrrl... 21? 🤨 giiirrrl
@queenbitch oh yikes then there's the whole pedophile/Ephebophile aspect.
He couldn't do much from prison either honestly.
@thatregalmujer, yeah exactly
I gave up my friends school everything to become a mom and got a job
But he couldn’t give up anything
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He’s been rejecting him for a while
He wants nothing to do with his donor
He’s in great health with a great job so I don’t understand why all of a sudden he’s coming around for