My oldest is 12 😭today going on 30 🤣 my whole family has called and said happy birthday and sent gifts but her father my ex hasn’t called her yet today or check on her in a month I’m sad for her because that’s what my father use to do to me and I feel like I shouldn’t have to remind him I’ve done that for years I’m just venting mamas but I am gonna make sure she does have a good day today no matter what