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Okay so I need some advice.

Okay so I need some advice.

I have a friend who is in a very toxic relationship. She has been married for 1 year and she says her husband recently started hitting her. She asked me to take her 6 month old son for a few days so she can figure out a way to leave but knew it would be hard with the baby so I took him. I have had her son for 4 days now and she’s still struggling to leave. She doesn’t want her family involved because she said they told her not to marry this man and she did it anyway. I don’t know what to do. Last night when I went over to take her the baby after she told me to bring him her husband started hitting her with the baby in her arms so I took him and sent the police over there. Come to find out the neighbors also called the police and they arrested him but now she’s mad at me because she said I shouldn’t have called the police and that I want her to be a single mother. Honestly this really hurt my feelings I know she is going through a hard time but I’m just trying to help. She told me just now on the phone that she’s not going to court so the charges will be dropped and she wants her son back now. She’s on her way to pick up her son but I just don’t understand first she wanted to leave now she doesn’t? I met her in this group of young mommy’s in our area so I don’t know much about her family just which street they live on because she briefly talked about it in the past. What do I do? She said she doesn’t want to be friends anymore because I got too involved but I feel bad for her baby I think he will get hurt if I don’t do something. I don’t understand

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thatregalmujer

LivinintheeastdreaminboutthewestМама сына (1 год)

He hit her in front of you? He's very bold, he will most likely hit the baby too. Since she most likely told you that she's sending the baby to her parents to shut you up, ask her what's her parents name and their address, if she won't give it to you, call CPS and tell them about her situation.

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ajaecymone184

AjaecymoneМама сына-младенца

I said the same thing! I was so shocked that he would hit her in front of me and even looked like he’d hit me as well. I did call cps and they have opened a case. I also went to the street where she claimed her parents lived and I knocked on a few doors and some neighbors directed me to the parents home. They weren’t home though so I left a note in the mailbox and a number for them to call me. This was 5 hours ago though so I haven’t heard anything yet. I hope they call

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del_1614990410_buildyourtable

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If you don't want to get involved. Inbox me. I call them for you..

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ajaecymone184

AjaecymoneМама сына-младенца

Update: I called and gave them her address . They told me they will start a investigation and be and police are also conducting a investigation and initiated a wellness check. She has been texting me every couple of hours to make conversation and asking if I called. I haven’t really answered her question and just been avoiding it. She also told me her husbands brother is working on getting him out now. I really hope they get to her before he’s out.

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del_1614990410_buildyourtable

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@ajaecymone184 I do to.. don't feel guilty.. your doing the right thing. I will pray for her.. I don't want see anyone else get hurt. Hopefully this will help her open her eyes

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del_1614990410_buildyourtable

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Yes CPS... he going to kill her. This women. had a best friend and her husband killed her.. She is scared..So she not going to leave. I wish I started where you live. He like hitting women. Well I love hit men like that. I have a friend and her husband beat her too she never told me. I wish she would..

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘Мама троих детей

Girl she will go back and forth it’s hard which sounds weird but she needs to get a restraining order pronto but she had to be ready or nothing will change

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sherrynygirl

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@ajaecymone184, Thank you for taking the baby and trying to help #1 . Women in abusive relationships are usually &almost always controlled by their boyfriend/husband who is usually manipulative.I was a teen mom and found courage to leave my abusive 1st husband we were married at 18 ,my parents didn’t know and didn’t like him so yeah it could be embarrassing &all to admit but,SHE has to find courage to leave his abusive ass “the especially having a baby to consider #1 ! If he hit her with a baby In her arms he doesn’t give a shit about that woman or baby ! You should not feel guilty all we can do is learn from these experiences and you were being a good person by calling the police and scared for that innocent baby and lady being abused , please let us know how it goes .

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sherrynygirl

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@ajaecymone184, I would call ! You could be saving that babies life , this lady is telling you she’s not pressing charges on her abusive man : but, didn’t make that move to leave while you had her baby I say she’s full of shit ,u gave her time to pack up and make arrangements if she really wanted to leave she would have

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ajaecymone184

AjaecymoneМама сына-младенца

@sherrynygirl, update: I called and gave them her address. They told me they would do a wellness check and a investigation has been started. They told me they would go by sometime this week and go from there. She has been texting me every couple of hours to make conversation and asking if I called. I haven’t really answered her question and just been avoiding it. She told me her husbands brother is working on getting him out now. I really hope they get there before he’s out.

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sherrynygirl

sherry S

@ajaecymone184, you really did the right thing !

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