Hi mommas... so I’ve been seeing this guy and we’ve known each other since i was pregnant but at the time I was trying to work on things with my sons dad. He’s asked me to move us in with him and we’ve talked it through and I thought I’d ask for your opinions. I live in a crowded apartment with my mom sister 1 year old son 2 cats and a pit bull. It’s overwhelming and when my son is at his dads I spend my free time with my guy. My question is when does my happiness come into play and would this be a healthy choice for my son. 🤔
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We’re working on them spending time together now, but the atmosphere at my moms can be toxic, I definitely don’t want to depend on a guy we would be splitting the bills and working on moves toward the future
If you see this as being a long term relationship, and he truly makes you happy, then go for it! A happy mom is just as important as a happy kid
I think I have a very different standpoint on things like this. I waited to date, 4 years. And I wasn’t even looking. Now we’ve been together 2.5 years and I still won’t move in with him. Yes I still live with my parents too but I’d rather work on things on my own and save my own money than depend on a guy. How long has he actually been an active participant in your sons life?