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Angie
Angie
Мама четверых детей, беременна

I know a mom who carries her sonn alllll the time. And her Daughters carry him ALL the time as well.…

I know a mom who carries her sonn alllll the time. And her Daughters carry him ALL the time as well. He is one and a half and cannot walk! Because they carry him all day. 😠 idk how to help her at this point. He also does not sleep through the night or talk 😞 is that even normal?

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alishap1212

Food Is Love 💕💕

Everyone develops at different stages in life . Regarding the sleeping through the nights my daughter is 2 almost 2.5 and she doesn’t sleep through the night .

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hardknockmama

Angie

Мама четверых детей, беременна

Ok ☺☺ this means he is ok💜

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massgirl

Mandy

My daughter is five. 5.5 technically and has never slept through the night. Usually wakes twice.

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db413

Dani B

Мама двоих (младенец)

My exes daughter was 1 1/2 and couldn’t walk when I met them. Anytime I watched her, I wouldn’t carry her any where. If she wanted to be where we were. She crawled. Eventually she started walking.

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hardknockmama

Angie

Мама четверых детей, беременна

I appreciate this comment 💜💜

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db413

Dani B

Мама двоих (младенец)

all kids have the capability to do things, if they are allowed and encouraged.

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massgirl

Mandy

Maybe gently suggest that they have the child evaluated by early intervention. Every child develops differently but if what you say is true she could be on track for falling behind. 1.5 isn't too far behind for these milestones though.

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hardknockmama

Angie

Мама четверых детей, беременна

Its a boy. He never even tries . he just reaches for them cause he know they are going to pick him up. 😞 like no effort is being made. 😞

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massgirl

Mandy

that's typical of younger children and not out the norm. If there isn't any physical or intellectual concerns then he will catch up eventually.

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hardknockmama

Angie

Мама четверых детей, беременна

ok 🙌🏿🙌🏿 i neededthis cause i worry for her.

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watz

watz

My daughter couldn't walk or talk at a year and a half. She's autistic

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watz

watz

@hardknockmama yeah I had plenty of people tell me that my daughter's delays weren't a big deal either, but they were wrong and if I would have listened to them because I couldn't face the truth I would have wasted valuable time and I have no doubt my daughter wouldn't be doing as well as she is today.

It would be a good idea to have professionals make the decision if his delays are worth worrying about or not. Because yes, children do develop in different ways and some kids will be fine and will catch up with their peers all on their own, but other kids need extra help and the sooner they get that help the better the overall outcome.

Just an fyi

Please let the child's mother know that... You can contact Early Intervention yourself you don't need a doctor's referral.

Honestly contacting EI was one of the best things I have ever done for my daughter.

Once you contact EI they will send a therapist out to your home and evaluate.. If the child is found to have a 30% delay in any area and are under 3 years old they will qualify for services.

EI will send out whatever therapists that are needed to the home on a weekly basis. EI also works on a sliding scales based on income so it's extremely affordable.

My daughter saw a Developmental therapist, a Physical therapist, an Occupational Therapist, and a Speech Therapist all in our home and it only cost us $20 a month which was a godsend since my daughter didn't receive her autism diagnosis until she was 3 years old and our insurance wouldn't cover her therapies without a diagnosis and her therapy cost over $100 an hour which we simply couldn't afford. But EI allowed our daughter to receive her much needed therapies.

A quick google search should supply you with your state's early intervention phone number or your pediatrician should have their contact information

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hardknockmama

Angie

Мама четверых детей, беременна

😱what kind of services can he qualify for under 3? And i believe i heard of something like that here. Its called "early on"

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watz

watz

all the services that he would need. For example physical therapy got my daughter walking, Developmental and speech therapy helped my daughter learn to talk. Occupational therapy helped my daughter with her gross and fine motor skills and balance because her vestibular system is wonky, once she learned to walk she walked like she was drunk and stumbled around and would walk right into walls because she had no concept of where her body was in space. All of those therapies were given to her through early intervention until she aged out at 3 years old.

EI also immediately got her into preschool the moment she turned 3 and set up all of her needed therapies through the school and came with me for my daughter's first IEP with the school

Seriously, contacting EI was one of the best things I've ever done for my daughter. She will be 5 in August and she walks, runs, jumps, climbs, is more steady on her feet and is less clumsy, she talks, she can read knows all of her numbers and shapes etc etc she's thriving

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2sweetie

Melinda Westad

Lots of kids don’t talk at 18 months but he should be walking. If he wants to be carried then he should be checked out by a doctor because maybe he has a condition with his bones or muscles but cannot express himself. A friend of mine found out her daughter has pediatric arthritis and it was painful for her to walk. She was walking at 12 months but she always wanted to be carried. Her mom thought she was just being clingy but turns out it was actually painful for her to walk. She couldn’t jump or climb.

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hardknockmama

Angie

Мама четверых детей, беременна

😱😱 hope that is not the case 😭

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