I’m like thrown for a loop. Someone I thought that was a close friend, kind of went off on me…
I’m like thrown for a loop. Someone I thought that was a close friend, kind of went off on me tonight. Told me she respected me, but that she was fed up and didn’t agree with a lot of my views. I’m like shook. I asked what I said that offended her, and that she didn’t agree with, but she didn’t have a response.
Like tell me what I said that offended you, I am always open to learn and grow with my views.
Ugh.
I’m so nonconfrontational with friends but now I’m all messed up. 🙃🙄
ErikaK·
Oh no, sorry that happened to you 😬 don't let it get you down. Sometimes people just have a difference of opinions. When I was in college my best friend's mom didn't want her to hang out with me anymore because I had premarital relations with my boyfriend (you know what I mean lol) and I never knew that offended her until a few years later. 🤷♀️
Ss3mom·
Well if she won’t tell u what she doesn’t agree with then that’s her problem not yours ya know? There’s a way to go about this in a mature adult fashion but she doesn’t seem like she wants to talk about it which I find very very immature. It’s ok for people to have different views on things, I mean that’s what makes the world go round, but to just say she doesn’t agree then shut down the convo isn’t cool at all. Maybe give her a day or two and ask her again if u really wanna know. If she’s really your good friend then she will be willing to continue this convo. I’m sorry that sucks but it’s not on u it’s on her
A J··
Agree!
Teresha Hollis ·
Honestly sounds like that’s HER problem. She’s an adult and didn’t do things the way she should have, y’all could have talked it out. Don’t go chasing her asking her anything since she’s so fed up especially since she didn’t even give you a reason outside of “our views are different” who cares ? Not everybody is going to agree with you and if she hasn’t realized that yet then TOUGH.
I’m so sorry you’re going through that but it will get better with time. Don’t blame yourself
Stephanie·
Maybe she was having a bad day and just took it out on you? 🤔 I hope you get things figured out with her if she is a good friend.
Elyssa H·
@jennatess, Awh, I’m sorry hun! But, like the others have said, this is totally on her. You should not feel like you did anything wrong at all, because you tried to figure it out. A real friend would have told you what it is that you were doing/saying that was bothering them so you could either move forward without them as a friend or keep them as a friend. You just keep doing you girl, she lost a good friend, that’s her loss!
A J·
Well damn. I have a ton of friends that say and do shit I don’t like or wouldn’t do. She could have just unfollowed you.. I wonder what what’s her deal now.
Hope things get straightened out.