Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so i txted my bd an told him i might wanna move the shower to the park instead of his sisters house because of our arguement an he ignored me so now i will ignore him an not tell him when the baby actually comes. am i wrong??
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I'm so upset my husband just informed me, that my 16 yr. Old daughter told him while I was gone that I was a bad Mom with too many kids, that I was dumb because I dropped out of school, that she wanted to part in meeting her new sister in December. I'm so broken and don't know what to do!
3RD UPDATE: What would you do? Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitters they have had. Well his sister just moved in and she had the little boy all morning. I get a text at 11 from the mom asking if I can come get the boy because the sister needs to leave to work on her car?.... I told her I would but was on my way to the store and would be back at 12 and would get him then. So I get back and the sister brings him over. He doesn't know me at all, but he is a very good little boy. I had no problems with him the whole time. So here is my question, I watched him from 12 to 530, the mom texted at 2 and asked how much I told her 10-15 just because I'm nice. If it was me in that situation on such short notice and someone saving my ass to watch my kid I would give them 15-20 if they said 10-15. So the dad picked him up and said the mom would pay when she got home. I just texted and asked her because she's been home since 6 (now it's 930) if she was bring over the money, I was super nice about it. She said her husband had to go to the bank, so he went and came back and then she texted me that it was on the front porch. They gave me $8. Like really? I just find this super weird. Would you be kinda thrown back by this also? I definitely learned my lesson and won't be "helping out" anymore. I just thought this was nuts.
Rubiaxo·
Мама четверых детей
Oh that’s nothing compared to watch my sister did to me. I was dating someone with I was like 14/15 & she was really trying to get with him smh
Vee··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет)
How rude !!!!! Now my sister eff texted me that my X told her just now that he didnt know I was her sister !!! Why the fuck she gotta even tell him shit !!!!!
MassMomma16·
Мама дочки (3 года)
Why care so much about a high school boyfriend that you dumped? I wouldn’t worry THAT much about her wanting what you threw away.
Lucky Mommy ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I agree if its trash dont worry so much
Lucky Mommy ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@verguinia thats not cool thats not cool at all but hey shes grown why not plus it should hurt you none right sweetheart your a strong mama you got it ik it sound hacked but , since me and my brother dont have a relationship he was a player and he didnt want kids and Accidentally got his gf pregnant my dad got mad and i told him thats what he gets for trying to be a player and he told me watch your gonna have kids my husband told hell yeah we gonna have kids everything he said was a back lash its cool sweetie everything she doing its not sweet but its gonna bite her
Vee··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет)
Yea true like so rude of her she was institutionalized for trying to kill herself but has 2 kids a 4 and 5 yrs old so the boyfriend is the one always giving her kids to his sister to watch them and she wanted to leave her kids to go study in another country with her boyfriend and sister ! She be all about herself and the stuff she do she don't see how they affect others, if she go to school in another country her kids are gonna suffer not even be with relatives she be leaving her kids with the boyfriend sis all the time then she wanna break up with him how that gonna affect the kids truly!!!!! And she be broke but buying the most expensive food and posting on fb while telling me she dont got a dollar in her pocket !!!!!
Lucky Mommy ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
oooh no time to cut it but them kids dont need to suffer at all same with the boyfriend seems like he wants to try n help but idk but fr she needs to grow up she can do school at home and take care of the kids and stop with the spending and spending it on Realistic stuff for the kids unless she dont like to cook and if she is bout her self dont have kids they are time consuming and need care love compassion and you will never have your time back even when your babys are out of the house
Vee··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет)
exactly !!!!! She be making home cooked meals though but since she in school idk how her kid her boyfriend be feeding them I guess I just got her response she said she gonna delete and block him ummm you should of never added him and flirted in the first place I ain't got time for that I'm not replying to her fuck it
Lucky Mommy ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Not to be mean but a thoty one
Vee··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет)
She always be taking sexual pics and posting with her as and no bra
Vee··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет)
I also left her a very rude privet message expressing myself who the fuck she think she is !!!!! Unforgivable !!!! Fuck her!!!!! What she did for me!!!! Nothing I always be the one giving her shit and listening to her tiny problems while I'm in a DV shelter with my kids and trying to servive durring the epidemic and no place to live yet !!!!! And she call me to complain about her boyfriend fuck youuuu ask me if I need anything
Lucky Mommy ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
time to cut the cord sweetheart