“Mommy, I’m brown. Do you like me?” A question from my 3-year-old daughter that started me on a journey of #selfreflection. Here’s the beginning of what I hope to continue to write and expand upon in the coming weeks.
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#motherhood #selfdiscovery #selflov
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Me and my daddy 😘😘😘😍😍😍
AF due 29th, anyone else? Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
did she delete or block me ?
XryztalRoze·
After reading your post and responding to this I had my own "brown moment" with my daughter and her father. I was sad bc she questioned his color(I knew it would happen eventually but wasn't prepared for it to happen so soon) he had a different perspective. He said he didn't see with coming with a question of race or ethnicity, just from the perspective that she has learned her colors and now see that we are all a different color in the house. All she sees is our family, people who love her, and when she sees others she sees their differences and yes, color is part of that, but again she doesn't see race or ethnic boundaries and her question came from a place of curiosity and innocence. I really hope this is the same place your daughters question was coming from and that she will have a very different vision of herself and that her battle within will be different from yours. Many hugs mama!
XryztalRoze·
"Healing is a life long process and only the ones who find forgiveness reach the end of their journeys whole"- CRS(That's me, but I don't want to use my name)
Thank you for posting this. It is intensely felt and well written. My prayers for your continued journey to healing and wholeness. Wholeness comes much faster! And when you get there you will see the difference. God bless you and your sweet girl.
Carleita··
Мама дочки (3 года)
🙏🏽💕thank you so much!