Separate. As long as he pays me what I need to cover the bills, I don't need to see what he spends his money on. It would give me tremendous anxiety to see all the random shit he buys and what he does not have in his bank account..if we ever had a joint account he knows those spending days are over lol
I’m married but my husband and I both have separate accounts and a joint savings. It’s easier to determine who pays what bills. And then the savings is big picture.
right 😂 we just have an amount we agree to put into savings and as long as everything else is covered, if I want to buy myself something I don’t feel guilty. He usually spends his money on me anyway cause I’m spoiled. And food.
Before we were married, we each had a separate account and a joint account. We each deposited our paychecks to our separate account then just transferred what was needed to pay the bills to our joint account.
Christine Phillips·
Separate, but we split the bills.
Jay·
Мама сына (6 лет)
Separate. As long as he pays me what I need to cover the bills, I don't need to see what he spends his money on. It would give me tremendous anxiety to see all the random shit he buys and what he does not have in his bank account..if we ever had a joint account he knows those spending days are over lol
*****·
Separate we aren’t even allowed to know how much we both have in our accounts 😐
Kelly 🌻··
And does that work for you?
Lindsey·
My hubs & I have had a joint account since about a year after we started dating.
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ·
Separate. For life lol. Joint savings if need be
Harley Quinn ·
I’m married but my husband and I both have separate accounts and a joint savings. It’s easier to determine who pays what bills. And then the savings is big picture.
Meow. ··
That’s exactly how we do it too. He don’t need to know what bs I’m wasting my money on 😩😂
Harley Quinn ··
right 😂 we just have an amount we agree to put into savings and as long as everything else is covered, if I want to buy myself something I don’t feel guilty. He usually spends his money on me anyway cause I’m spoiled. And food.
Kellyjc·
same
Dusty ·
I am married but we have separate banks and dont have cards for each others banks very separate
PatsyStone·
Мама троих детей
Before we were married, we each had a separate account and a joint account. We each deposited our paychecks to our separate account then just transferred what was needed to pay the bills to our joint account.
Jessica Hawkins ·
Мама троих детей
Me and my fiancé have a joint account
Valerie·
We’re separate but we hold onto each other’s bank cards.
Brooke Denny·
Мама дочки (1 год)
We have separate jobs so we have separate accounts. I don’t trust him to pay stuff 🙄