So my dad just found out I am dating a girl .. He is so upset. He says I am confused and am going…
So my dad just found out I am dating a girl .. He is so upset. He says I am confused and am going down the wrong path. He just doesn’t understand . He’s old fashioned and stuck in his ways . I just want him to be happy for me 😒
M H K S·
Alot of people wont understand; but remember its YOUR choice and YOURS only! It's also not yout job to make anyone happy, except you! Who knows; give him time, let him get used to the idea and his mind set could possibly change. I've seen this happen with alot of old fashioned folks, it takes a loved one to go down that path to show them what they need to see. ♡♡♡
Em💋··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
Yea I mean I guess I can give him time I understand his part too. I just want him to be happy that I am happy that’s all.
JenX··
This!!!!
Uhhhh·
My mom told me the same thing back when I was 16 🤷🏼♀️
Now I'm Polyamorous and have both 😂
She's alot more accepting now than she was when I was 16
But none of her kids are straight. So it's either accept it or lose each and every kid.
I'm 25 now.
Em💋··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
I almost got into a relationship with a girl and guy but I knew it wasn’t going to work out. Now I’m VERY happy with my stud gf 🥰
Uhhhh··
@rainbowmami
Girl trust me it is a lot of work and alot of times some of those couples are in it for the wrong things 🙄
But sometimes so is the other female. It took forever to find a GF that mashed well with both me and my husband. She actually came to me and it happened naturally.
As long as your happy that's all that matters. I'm sure your dad will come around.
My mom actually took to the news pretty well
Uhhhh··
@momtoboys1516
Kids just see love
And no because of the virus they haven't been around her. They've video chatted with her before. They know who she is. Well my oldest does. My youngest doesn't really grasp relationships yet 😂.
Plus she's in GA so long distance my state has an anti travel ban. I probably won't be able to even go to GA to see my newborn niece.
Ohhh you were replying to her lol
Well my sister's wife is a "stud"
He sees his other mommy as female just like his bio mom
*****·
Im not old fashioned for me it’s more of a religious thing bkz god isn’t really accepting of that, it’s an abomination to him. if that was one of my kids I wouldn’t like it but I’d still love my kid regardless that will never change!
Em💋··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
I understand. And yes I agree that no matter what you’d love your kid
Linden··
WOW
Goth_Mom·
I'm bi and i've been poly (didn't work for me) but i can also relate cause my grandmother is the same way she would have a stroke if she found out i like girls also and that my brother is gay so she doesn't know. to me love is love doesn't matter if you like girls or you like guys love always wins as long as your happy it doesn't matter ❤️ maybe give him some time and space
Em💋··
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
There’s always going to be that someone who is against it . But I don’t care anymore. I tried Polly for like 3 months but I just wanted the girl but she wasn’t going to leave her bf for me so I left it at that. Plus they have two kids too 🤷🏻♀️
Goth_Mom··
@rainbowmami, this is so true. you're always going to hear negative no matter what you do so just keep doing what makes you happy
JenX·
I agree, sometimes a parent sort of has an idea of how their child's life will go, and it is hard for them to accept that isn't the way it will go. That maybe your path with have a little more adversity. But at the end of the day, I am sure he will see that you are happy and being treated well.