I need to vent!!! So since this lock down my husband and my job told us to stay home we managed to pay everything ND get our kids stuff ND food for our house but sadly I found out I was sick thank God nothing to bad but if left untreated it could be so I asked my sister if she could let me borrow the money until we get paid which is next Tuesday she said ok at first so then I asked her when she would be able to send it or if I could pick it up she told me she couldnt because she had to get seafood and her friend needed cigarettes 😡😡 when I tell you I got mad I got big mad I said wow really after everything I helped u with mind u she has paid nothing back to me or my husband.. she says yeah it's not in my budget anymore 🤷 I was so mad and hurt I still can't believe it I know ppl say family stick together but at this point I'm ready to cut ties with her am I wrong for this ???? Idk maybe I'm speaking Because I'm mad but tbh im tired of always helping ppl then when u ask for the smallest of things the same ppl cant do the same
SIDE NOTE
She got paid for two months in advance because her job didn't know when they was opening again she already paid her bills and did everything she needed to do how do I know is because I took her to do all these things without gas money I may add and I only asked for 25$..
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is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
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I wouldn't cut ties but I just say never depend on anyone for anything financially even family. I went through a lot with this sort of thing with my family. even my gma still owes me but goes and spends money freely when she knows I'm barely making it with my 2 babies. I don't ask anyone for anything anymore unless I know I can pay it back. and I won't be letting anyone borrow money either. no one is obligated to help but naturally we expect family to be supportive during hard times. unfortunately some rather see you struggle.