So my mom claimed my son and I on her taxes because we lived with her and she provided more for us than anyone could do (myself included). My son’s dad thinks he’s entitled to half the money she’s giving me for the simple fact that he’s his dad. He already got his own taxes (more than I will have) and his defense is that he worked for that money...opinions? 👀
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Tell him to eff off. I don't mean this to sound shitty, but technically you're not entitled to the money either but obviously your mom is nice enough to let you have it. I wouldn't give him anything. Being a parent doesn't make you entitled to tax money. Whoever provided the child with care is.
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He 100% does not deserve any of that money. That is your mother's money which she is choosing to give some to you. And if I were your mother I would make sure that you don't give him a dime!! Men don't want to be Father's when it comes to them paying but once the opportunity to get money comes up they come running!!! They'll be there 100% acting like father of the year. Regardless of what your situation is now. Whether he hardly saw him at all for the first few months and now get them half the time he still has absolutely no right to that money. I hate men that are when I feel like it Father's. A when I feel like it father doesn't deserve shit.
He doesn't deserve shit. Your mother took care of you and your child. Idk if you worked, or if you provide snap or anything, but if not, I'd be very appreciative that she's giving u any of it (which I am sure you are). And he should appreciate the fact that someone took care of his child and child's mother. Im sorry if I seem rude. But my MIL provides for her daughter, granddaughter, her daughters boyfriend and his kid. The bf JUST got a job. But for 3, almost 4 years, my MIL, her husband and son(husband now deceased and son in jail) have financially supported them. They just got taxes back and havnt given my MIL a penny. After all she's done for them
@taylor.bush29 yea. Men think they are entitled bc they donated the sperm. We claimed one of my step sons this year. We pay child support, pay all the copays,more than half of school supply, hair cuts, clothes and more. We have them friday-momday, almost every holiday,and then extra days bc their mom can't be bothered. I think we should claim both, but we only claim one.
@allyzmommyxlw, quick to pipe up and claim some money but where was that outspokenness when I was losing my mind with a gassy newborn who would only sleep while we were sitting up and I was holding him 👀🤷🏽♀️
@taylor.bush29 yea. He don't deserve it. Can't be a dad, he doesn't deserve the benefits that come with being a dad.
Tell him to look for that money where the sun doesn’t shine😂
Thanks for all the real woman advice...I aspire to be y’all 😪🙌🏽
Who told you he didn’t have to pay child support just cause he has him on his insurance ??
The case worker. He told her that he had him on his health insurance and she asked how much he pays and she said okay we’ll as long as your paying that...I wasn’t there when he was talking to her I’m sure he lied and said he has him half the time and provides the diapers formula wipes clothes bottles etc....he didn’t his family did. Which was fine cause my baby was taken care of....but now? I’ve been more than fair with this man because he lost his mom last year 2 weeks before our son was born so he was kinda absent for the first couple months...but 🤷🏽♀️
@taylor.bush29, that makes no sense he pays 300 for insurance for both of them not just the baby so he needs to pay child support I would file for child support again cause I’m sure your getting the ass end of this and don’t let him be alone talking to a caseworker ask to be there
@jaybird1988, he has him half the time now and since his taxes and unemployment has been providing for what he needs at his place so there’s no point now...I know I sound like a fool I just want my baby to know and love his dad...
Say what!? Tell him to kick rocks he isn’t entitled to anything he got his taxes and he got money
I can’t stand how greedy people are these days it’s unbelievable
Keep the money if your mom is nice enough to give you any but if he wants more money tell him to go get another job 🤷♀️
Tell him to eff off. I don't mean this to sound shitty, but technically you're not entitled to the money either but obviously your mom is nice enough to let you have it. I wouldn't give him anything. Being a parent doesn't make you entitled to tax money. Whoever provided the child with care is.
EXACTLY that’s what my mom said and she was like I mean I can give you the money and you can tell him if he wants money to ask her and she’ll tell him no 🤣💀
Tell him to take a hike 💯 does he stay at home with the kid 24/7 doubt it
He has been out of work since October. Collecting unemployment and I take him our son on the weekends so I can work or just have a break.
@taylor.bush29, sounds like a dead beat I’d tell him to fuk off
I'm not understanding what "he worked for" since you lived with your mom and she provided for you. He doesnt deserve any of that money
I was telling him he already got his money so why can’t I just have this and he said it’s not the same cause that was his working tax refund and I’m getting this much because of OUR child.
That’s not his money 😂 if he didn’t provide for u or do shit for yalll and ur mom did that’s her money
He's not the one who provided for y'all so he can go away with the bs
When I said that he said “he was on my health insurance that was $300/month” so should I calculate how many times he paid that and give him that? 🤷🏽♀️ cause I tried to put him on child support and they told him if he paid that, he wouldn’t have to pay anything else....
@taylor.bush29, thank sounds like a lie to me rofl about the child support and him providing insurance. He would still have to pay child support and normally it’s the father who has to supply health insurance point blank. And per child custody you have to switch years only if he has been paying child support for the entire year considering your baby is only 10 months and you have no child support order that Man ain’t entitled to sh*t
@taylor.bush29 it's his kid. He's obligated to provide healthcare for his child. Don't give him shit.
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Say what!? Tell him to kick rocks he isn’t entitled to anything he got his taxes and he got money
I can’t stand how greedy people are these days it’s unbelievable
Keep the money if your mom is nice enough to give you any but if he wants more money tell him to go get another job 🤷♀️