Any other first time pregnant mums out there spent the last hour in tears absolutely lost. This is not how it's supposed to be... who is going to teach me in those first few days/weeks how to be a mum... as my mum is not allowed to leave her house (she is vunerable)(so will we be).... no one is going to get to meet my bubba unless it's over face time. My bubba will only be held by me and its dad until god knows when. I feel devastated for my baby but also for myself.... I spent my pregnancy unable to share the real Joy's because babies dad was on tour... now I face doing the same with my new born baby.
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Nobody teaches you how to be a parent it’s just something you learn as you go. Your baby will have no knowledge of who would have visited them so they’re not missing out and when this is all over your family will be able to meet him/ her which will be so much more special because of the situation. And also, when you have a newborn, this isolation is the best thing that could happen because believe me when you’ve just pushed a watermelon out of a cheerio, having people constantly swamping you for visits gets extremely annoying extremely fast 😂
This won’t last forever. I know right now you probably feel helpless and a little lost but at least your baby has you and dad❤️ try think of the good out of a bad situation even though it can be very very hard to do so x my inbox is always open xx
It just makes me sad I guess. I have a memory of sitting on my sisters bed with my mum when she had her first with my mum showing her how to breast feed and what to do when he kept falling asleep 5 mins in lol. I know I have good instincts and have been working in care for the last 12 years with young children so that will defo help me out. I guess it's just the little things like the above that I am going to miss out on..
Thank you all though its nice to have the support as it's difficult to really tell partner and family how I really feel about it all as have to be strong about it all xxx
You have this app and we can all help and answer questions. The first few weeks of a baby are a blur and I think it’s nice to spend time just the three of you. There will be your mum as well as midwives health visitors etc a phone call away to offer sound advice. The hospital guide you well with a first baby before they discharge you home and you will be amazed what natural instincts you have as well.
Lockdown is three weeks if people follow the rules set then baby may not even be delivered. Try not to stress everyone will meet baby and love and bond in time
Lockdown or not nobody can teach you to be a parent. You learn through your own instinct and if you worried or need advice we are all here to help you if you need to ask how or what to do. Xxxx
Thanks ladies feeling a lot more positive today about it although not sure what else could go wrong right now.
Currently on phone with card fraud as I have had phone cloned, bank account hacked loans taken out in my name and thousands spent 😤🙈 can 2020 start again please!