Anyone else’s partner have unrealistic goals/standards for their house ? My fiancé expects the house…
Anyone else’s partner have unrealistic goals/standards for their house ? My fiancé expects the house to literally look like no one freaking lives in the damn thing . Yet throws his clothes on the floor in the living room the second he gets home from works . Pees all over the damn seat . Leaves his tools and things literally everywhere . Yet I’m expected to make it look like some castle . So tired of no appreciation and high expectations that will never ever become a reality.
hottsprinkles·
No my man cleans after himself or I’d smack him lol 😆
Brianna Montgomery ··
In his head he does . And he’ll clean the house once in awhile and he’ll go hard on it , but only do the living area and throw everything in the bedrooms and tell me that’s my job. It’s literally ridiculous. Changes his clothes a million times a day. I just can’t even
What's It To You?·
Tell him it'd look nicer if he didn't act like he was raised in the wild.
Brianna Montgomery ··
I try telling him allllll the time of he’d just put his stuff where it belongs it’s be a lot easier and a lot nicer looking . My son that’s baking is literallllyyy kicking my hips apart and I could need surgery when he’s born. It’s tiring cleaning up after a toddler and a grown ass man all damn day. I’m in agony by the time I go to bed
What's It To You?··
you need a well deserved vacation.
Brianna Montgomery ··
tell me about it 😭😣
Jasmine·
Мама троих детей
Well since having to stay home while I’ve been working my SO has deep cleaned our bedrooms, bathrooms, and living room, he also did spring clean up outside. All I have left to deep clean is the kitchen and laundry room.
KLove·
Mine could care less. He would live in his own filth if I let him. We got into it about his laundry a few times and he offered to start doing it himself. One month later and there’s a pile of mixed clean and dirty laundry in the bottom of his closet, whole closet stank!! 🤮 Empty hangers and he just dug through the pile 😡 Some men are lazy pigs
Brianna Montgomery ··
Ugh that’s crazy. He’ll clean up once in awhile but HIS way . Which is throwing it all into the bedrooms 🙃
Need To Know ·
My husband has his own man cave and I throw everything into there. Its convenient because i can close the door and not have to see the mess. Hes responsible for cleaning the room and i clean everything else
Brianna Montgomery ··
Luckkyyyyy
cantdeletebutimgone·
Oh girl, I'm right there with you. Mine thinks that everything should be clean 24/7. Yet he leaves beer cans and water bottles everywhere packages of snacks everywhere piles of clothes all over the living room he has a hamper for his work clothes in the bathroom yet his clothes are thrown all over the bathroom. I take pictures of all of it before I clean it up because he likes to say that I'm a slob and I'm lazy when I'm the one that cleans up after everybody!!! The pictures are so I can throw it in his face when he tries to call me lazy or a slob
cantdeletebutimgone··
@briannalynn547 definitely do it. Throw it in his face, that's what he needs. I've even sent mine pictures of me deep cleaning the house. I have pictures of all my cabinets emptied out because I was cleaning them. I have a whole album in my photo gallery dedicated to his mess
Brianna Montgomery ··
@momsrmagical, oh boy 🤣
cantdeletebutimgone··
yeah I don't play around. Apparently he seems to think that all these things can't happen but it's okay when he does it. I shut that shit down
Linden·
Uh....HELL NO! My husband is not like this, nor should ANY husband be. That's fuckin RIDICULOUS! We share this house, it's not MY job.
Brianna Montgomery ··
Lucky you gf 😭
Ss3mom·
My dh doesn’t it’s more me haha. I’m a little ocd at time but then again I can leave some mess around and it doesn’t bother me. But like I won’t leave dishes in the sink ever.
Saera··
Мама троих детей
@briannalynn547, see I’ve had one for years and years but I never use it I just wash as I go lol even if it’s only a spoon it takes like two seconds so I never have dirty dishes
Brianna Montgomery ··
@prettygirlrock1214, I used to be like that then recently I needed stitches in my finger and ever since I’ve used the damn dish washer smh 🤣
Saera··
Мама троих детей
oh man ouch!
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Haha quit cleaning and leave it for him
Brianna Montgomery ··
It’d never get done right. 🤣
MassMomma16·
Yup, mine has OCD. Lol but he doesn’t make messes either.
Brianna Montgomery ··
Lucky lucky girl 😭🤣
FairyKarmaMomma·
Мама сына (5 лет)
Even though my husband has a broken ankle and is on a knee scooter, he still helps out. He takes the garbage out, he does dishes and laundry, and has even helped me with the lysol work! No excuses!
Brianna Montgomery ··
It takes forever for him to actually take the garbage out
Mama Coco·
Oooo when my husband starts to do that I get real petty and take pictures of all his stuff I have to clean up and blow up his phone with the pictures as I go about cleaning. Needless to say, the problem gets fixed real quick.
Brianna Montgomery ··
I need to start doing this 😭
Mrs.Santorno ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
I ligit feel like I wrote this myself ! I feel ya 1000000 %
Saera·
Мама троих детей
No my husband isn’t like that. I am more like it though. Started de cluttering the house yesterday, which I am very excited about. I like less and hate clutter.
Brianna Montgomery ··
Me too! We don’t really have a ton of stuff though
Saera··
Мама троих детей
me either! But I figure if w haven’t used it in awhile
It is not really needed so
Out it goes lol
Brianna Montgomery ··
@prettygirlrock1214, yes that’s how I am! Lol