Ok so since this seems like a foreign concept ima let it be known.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, did i say i believed you or didn't? no i didn't. all i'm saying is just cause it's on Facebook doesn't mean it's safe or right.

its on my resume and the company that was a 3rd party was called Genpact look it up the job title was social media content review analyst. Believe me or dont i got the check stubs to prove the pay and hours worked.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, and i use to be a billionaire and had a nice ass car with whatever designer bag you can think of.

Actually no i use to work for fb and instagram i was the 24hr people that said whether or not stuff got to stay up or get taken down or a warning label was put on it. We dont allow child, human, or sex trafficking we catch it and send it to the authorities of whatever country, state, or city it belongs too.

@ss3mom true i slept very well thanks for caring

@crumbsnatchersmama19, na not with this stupidity. I will never not say anything. This is just bizarre to me and about 99.9% of the whole world. But whatever helps u sleep at night.

so do you so you can be the bigger person and keep scrolling the next time you see something you dont like

@crumbsnatchersmama19, yea cause you’re super immature and can’t see what you’re doing is wrong. I’m not the only person who feels that way either. Fucking stupid and u really need to grow the fuck up

glad you realized this convo was a waste if time

@crumbsnatchersmama19, yes because 2 women can’t physically have a baby together. Do u understand that? Ya know what forget it it’s like talking to a child or better yet a brick fucking wall. It’s pointless to even go back and forth with u anymore. You’re so hell bent on having a baby u don’t care how it’s done even when your dh can have bio children.

my mom knows about it my friend and my neighbors daughter both used sperm donors to get preggo they are lesbian couples and i can assure you they didnt use a donor from a sperm bank. But they are both due to have babies may and july

my.husbands sperm is u tested but he's had an STDs test done....so is that enough for you.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, yea untested sperm. Can find that anywhere I suppose.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, I would think your family/parents would want to know about this. Don’t u? I know I talked to my parents about my children being born. About the ob I would highly doubt any medical professional would think this is a good idea.

according to the men in those screenshots theres plenty of sperm to go around

why do my conception plans need to be talked about to my family. Also i have a new OB and ive only seen him once.

why do my conception plans need to be talked about to my family. Also i have a new OB and ive only seen him once.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, k whatever u say. This whole situation is a fucking hot mess. Maybe leave that sperm for those who can’t have bio children. After all that’s why most people use sperm donors and all. Right?

@crumbsnatchersmama19, yea that was sarcasm. But I do wish your dh is the father of the future child u bring into the world. Can u ask have u spoken to your ob about this? What do they have to say? What about your family? What do they think of this all?

thanks for the well wishes.

how do you know if my husband will even resent the child let alone how the child will respond to us. You dont know any of that youre just assuming and when you're wrong you will no longer even care about what happened to admit to it.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, BECAUSE YOUR DH CAN HAVE HIS OWN CHILDREN. That’s the problem with this. Oh and you’re not using a reputable donor system. Here buy Sperm off fucking Facebook. Ffs this is stupid and u will never ever see anyone else’s point so good luck sister you’re going to need it.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, but that’s usually when one parent can’t have children on their own. My oldest sister is adopted but that’s because her father couldn’t have children. That’s a totally different convo this is straight up reckless. First tour dh will resent the child then the child will resent u two. Don’t say we didn’t try to warn u about this. Good luck with the whole legal process too. All I can say if I really do hope u and your dh have a bio child. This is a fucking mess of a situation

that convo is for us to have also plenty of people have to have the convo with their kids when a donor is invovled they either have the contact info or they dont and also the donor can choose to not have any contact with the child even if the child turns 18. So i cant have a blended family of bio, adopted, and donor bio kids? Geez didnt know that it was such a huge problem

@crumbsnatchersmama19, but do u see how ridiculous this sounds? He’s too tired or not in the mood for sex but he wants a baby so bad he’s willing to just have anyone’s baby? It’s fucking bizarre to me. Sure your body your choice but think about that child? What will u say to that baby when he or she is old enough to ask about her family history? Sorry can’t tell u cause I got your donor of fucking Facebook? Like for real?!?! It’s odd as shit. Just have your husbands baby so u can be a bio family. It’s fucking weird as fuck.

also its my body my choice my family. If you dont pay the bills or take care of our family then it really doesn't matter what you have to say

i never said he was too tired to tend to his kids i said what i saw was for the past few months he has usually said he was too tired, or not in the mood for sex. He also said when we moved things would change we moved and last week things did change because by the end of my fertile window we started having sex every morning sometimes twice a day so i couldn't have known he was gonna switch up at that time so i planned ahead based off what he had said in the past

@crumbsnatchersmama19, omg if he really wants a baby he will have sex with u. I think u really need to talk to him about really if he wants to have another child. If he’s not willing to have sex with u when you’re fertile, cause he’s too tired, lame ass excuse, then how’s he going to deal with a newborn and a one year old? He’s going to be too tired to help raise them. Ffs get that through your head file

He’s too tired to fuck her didnt ya know? The whole thing is fucking ridiculous. He would rather raise a child that’s not his then have sex with his wife. See how ridiculous that sounds? Like who’s not too tired but if u really really want a baby then u have sex with your spouse. Sounds like he doesn’t really want a child which is going to cause many many problems for this child when they grow up.

@kx2girlmommy ok

@crumbsnatchersmama19, it’ll happen, patience young grasshopper. It’ll be better to wait than to get knocked up by some psycho sperm and have to go thru many legal and mental consequences just cause you couldn’t wait

@kx2girlmommy lol true

@crumbsnatchersmama19, well there you go. He’s a willing participant. So you have to chill out if he doesn’t wanna have sex one day you are fertile....don’t run 🏃🏾‍♀️ to the sperm mobile

@kx2girlmommy i told him he could cum in a cup but he said he wanted to have sex

@crumbsnatchersmama19, oh lawd 🤦🏾‍♀️ lol. He should’ve procreate with a blue eyed white girl for a better chance for that outcome lol Jk JK. But stop using free nasty sperm... freeze your husbands and when he’s not in the mood you can turkey baste yourself with his 🤷🏾‍♀️

@kx2girlmommy lol he assumed per us both being mixed there could be a cool combination but he wasnt disappointed and he still loves our son.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, so was he hoping JebJeb was light skinned with colored eyes? 😳

@kx2girlmommy hubs cared about our sons skin color like if he was gonna be light like him or darker like me. He also wondered if our son was gonna be born with a different coloe of eyes than brown. He loves our son regardless.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, and outta all his mixes...he looks black as does Jeba so you might wanna go that route.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, if you want the baby to look like Jeba....USE YOUR FIRST DONORS SPERM...your husband. I can not believe he is okay with this.

@kx2girlmommy true it depends on which persons genes dominate

@kx2girlmommy yes hubs is mixed scottish irish Chinese indian and jamaican per his moms side. Im. Creole Cherokee and black

@crumbsnatchersmama19, waiiittt a min. Your husband is black, is he mixed?...you are def black. Jeba is very brown. If you go get sperm from a ... 100%. white man say... the baby will probably not look like Jeb-Jeb unless your genes take over

@kx2girlmommy donors that werent African American because i wanted mixed babies that looked similar to our son since hes mixed

@crumbsnatchersmama19, 😳 I know there is someone around you walking around that will do. You can just pick someone up off the street or at a store. You don’t know the demographics of these men’s either for sure... they could be lying and falsifying documents...you know how EASY it is to do that don’t you? What are your basics demographics you looking for anyways ...

@kx2girlmommy they didnt meet the demographics i was looking for in a donor

@crumbsnatchersmama19, so your reaction is to go find free spermies cause your husband isn’t in the mood to hump when you are fertile?! Why don’t you just go fck the neighbor...a friend... the liquor store owner if that’s the case. At least that sperm will be fresh fresh instead of out of a kit. If your husband doesn’t care where the baby comes from 🤷🏾‍♀️

@kx2girlmommy because i didnt think he would be up for it this cycle but he changed his mind and was more helpful. Usually he is either not in the mood or too tired.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, okay so why don’t you just keep humping your husband when you are fertile and wait til it happens.... not understanding WHY you feel you have to use free cum-in-a-cup

We did have sex. More days and times than when i met the donors which was once per donor

Plus I would say it’s even more dangerous meeting random men, how do you know they ain’t dodgy and wanna rob you or you know, other things

paternity test to check them

i cant say how i know or how any other recipients know but its just something that didnt make us uneasy

@crumbsnatchersmama19 yup bye be stupid and risk the health of your possible baby and yours plus the guy could be a creep and not just want to walk away from the baby but ya know your dumbass has an answer for everything even when it doesn't make sense 👍🖕

@maryfnpoppinsbitch yup i do thats me byeeeeeeee again

@crumbsnatchersmama19 🤣🤣🤣

yes they do have sperm banks and it costs hundred to thousands of dollars for a tiny vial of sperm and storage costs. As you can see from the people who made posts in that group they are going the cheaper route it doesnt mean that since they cant afford a sperm bank donor that they shouldn't have kids. Infertile, lgbt, and single people want kids and dont want to have to spend a shit ton of money to do it when theres easier cheaprr options i get cheaper isnt always better or safer but if its the route that me and millions of other people choose to use then who are you to judge, you wont be raising the kids or birthing the babies.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, I can’t even respond to your ridiculousness any more. Have a nice Sunday

i will thanks

Lol

Lol

Thank you for how you approached this. I agree i chose desperate measures and i know that only ill be able to face the consequences when they come to me.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, that’s the scary thing though..thinking that you have some sort of control over the consequences. It’s not just you who will have to face them...

then its something my husband and i would have to face

@crumbsnatchersmama19, since there is no legitimate reason besides impatience you could be breeding resentment and hurdles to overcome in the future w your DH

we had previously agreed on adopting kids so this is no different because an adopted child wouldn't be by either of us too and sometimes people dont adopt because of that reason too

@kx2girlmommy omfg 🤣 each of your comments just gets better. You are hilarious

@beautiful_disaster theres plenty of chemicals and carcinogens in the products plants and foods in your home too that eating away at various parts of your body too. See you don't even need drugs to have toxins in your body. Go write reviews with all this free time you're using on me.

@kx2girlmommy, 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

@crumbsnatchersmama19, I get that but still 🤷🏻‍♀️

@beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice yes they would, but it's not impossible. it can be done so if things do go south I hope you keep the same energy you have in your comments on here.

@kx2girlmommy @tammyarielc agree

sure will

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Hey hey hey, don't use my domain in vain. 😂

🙃🙃🙃

Takes all kinds

@ss3mom so do you so you can be the bigger person and keep scrolling the next time you see something you dont like

@crumbsnatchersmama19, na not with this stupidity. I will never not say anything. This is just bizarre to me and about 99.9% of the whole world. But whatever helps u sleep at night.

true i slept very well thanks for caring

thanks for your well wishes

@mumof20 good to know thanks

@crumbsnatchersmama19, you are absolutely right. Good luck 🤦🏼‍♀️

@ss3mom different stroke for different folks you dont know how anything will turn out cause if you could predict the future with accuracy your life would be different

@crumbsnatchersmama19, sure whatever u say. Maybe u need to do some serious soul searching here and really think about what you’re doing. This is fucked

tell that to the millions of people who go this route

@crumbsnatchersmama19, and i use to be a billionaire and had a nice ass car with whatever designer bag you can think of.

its on my resume and the company that was a 3rd party was called Genpact look it up the job title was social media content review analyst. Believe me or dont i got the check stubs to prove the pay and hours worked.

@crumbsnatchersmama19, did i say i believed you or didn't? no i didn't. all i'm saying is just cause it's on Facebook doesn't mean it's safe or right.

The men usually have the email results from the health, genetics, and std reports as well as background checks they can email the letter and results to you

@crumbsnatchersmama19 well if you're paying for it why not use a reputable place? Why risk loosing custody or your baby because I promise you if the man wants custody, he will be awarded atleast joint. If your husband is not the father and signs the birth certificate, that's falsifying records and both of y'all would go to jail and have neither kids. Maybe you should start caring.

tell that to the donors and recipient women and couples on that group....o wait you cant cause even if you did they wouldn't care. O well.

@crumbsnatchersmama19 don't go crying when y'all end up in jail then. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Yes the kit tells the recipient how to thaw and utilize the donors sperm samples and kits cost ranging from $50-200. You can buy them and ship them to the donor then he follows the kits instructions for donors and ships it back to you