I'm all about to trying to help single moms watch their children. But I be damned if I have to teach your child the basic personal hygiene.
So what do you think daycare teachers do? Or teachers in general? Or anyone who works in the childcare field? Some times people need a little extra help especially when they need to do it all.
@piercedmom3, single parents work. Raising a child takes work. They can’t do it all. If you want to “help” take care of kids, you need to expect to have to help them with basic things that you think they should already know.
Not that hard to show a child how to wash their hands. Maybe don’t watch people’s kids if you don’t want that responsibility.
@littleonemorning she can't wipe her self. I'm not teaching her to do all of that. They mom should do that. Her momma dgaf
how old is she? You just going to let her sit and risk all kind of things because you want to be petty? Just help her or don’t “help” single women.
Maybe you should not be around other people's children in this type of setting. Obviously if the child isn't being taught at home she will need to learn from someone. Damn, be there for the poor girl if she needs someone.
You should not be watching other people’s kids with this mindset. To each their own
My 7 year old still asks me to wipe his butt sometimes. My 5 year old can’t even reach his behind to wipe
@maryfnpoppinsbitch this is mainly about lazy parents. Parents who let electronics parent their child.
ok but that's not the way it sounds. kid is 4 and still needs help that's completely normal idgaf if you don't think it is but guess what it is my 7yr old still has issues with it so maybe you should find a different job real talk!
and I’m sorry, do you’re kids not have tablets? Are you not on your phone right now?
Did you or did you not just make a post about how hard being a single parent is?
Suck it up buttercup. Don’t not offer help if you want to bitch about actually helping a freaking CHILD. It’s not her fault her mom is lazy according to you. Jesus. It’s a child. Until your kids can mind their own, don’t judge others.
If the child is in your care, you should be caring for the child as you would your own. Not every child doesn’t know something because a “parent is being lazy”. My son is 5 and still ask for help. If I am caring for someone else’s child I would help that child and teach them no matter what just as I would do for mine own. But that’s just me 🤷🏻♀️
I feel you. Some parents need to straighten out their priorities. A cell phone is not one of them. Smh
@cuppacoffee, This 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 My girls are 3 & 5 and I still wipe them. Sometimes I will let them wipe themselves and then check them to see if they cleaned themselves right. If they didn’t, I tell them to wipe again.
I’ll be damned if I let someone watch my kids & they don’t want to help them with something.
If you can’t wipe a 4 year old because he/she needs help, then you shouldn’t be babysitting at all. The nerve of some people smh
@cuppacoffee your comment was under mine so I wasn't sure. I'm pretty sure we are all great moms but some women are just simply not!
Well I hope you helped this poor 4 year old instead of just complaining about it on your electronic device
No of course I helped her. Im not going to neglect her like her mother did. I hope I just don't see why she can't do it. Imagine when she older and can't do it herself
she’ll then think back to a nice woman who helped her when she needed it. And strive to be a better person than her mother.
I’m sure when she’s older she’ll have it figured out. It’s our job as parents/caretakers/adults to help any child. If they need a little extra help that’s what we are there for. Instead of saying you’re not going to teach the child maybe what you should do is have a conversation with the parent. Just a hey just so you know your child needed a little extra help if you aren’t already working on it, it’s something that needs some attention
i’m sorry but this is the most selfish, ignorant, pathetic post i’ve read in a while. how are you a mom but don’t feel it’s your place to help a child with shit they need to learn ESPECIALLY when you’re sitting here telling us she’s a scum bag? instead of feeling bad, you’re punishing the child. it ain’t punishing her mom love, that’s hurting the baby. now TWO adults who should have cared for her, rejected her for stupid reasons. ones is they’re glued to their phone & the other is too petty to give a fuck because “i’m not her mom”. you’re a whole asshole for that, sorry not sorry. don’t volunteer to “help” someone out with their kids then if this is your mentality. fix yourself sis, YOU are the one in the wrong. not that little girl. help that damn child & stop acting like YOU are the child.
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
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Maybe you should not be around other people's children in this type of setting. Obviously if the child isn't being taught at home she will need to learn from someone. Damn, be there for the poor girl if she needs someone.
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If the child is in your care, you should be caring for the child as you would your own. Not every child doesn’t know something because a “parent is being lazy”. My son is 5 and still ask for help. If I am caring for someone else’s child I would help that child and teach them no matter what just as I would do for mine own. But that’s just me 🤷🏻♀️