Of course I forgot to take a pic of ava this morning as Elsa so tried to do it when she got home from school and she wasn't having it, but heres ava as Elsa 😊
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Warning long and not pregnancy related!! So my husband's sister has a daughter (Ava) she believed it was her boyfriend Brandon's, but he got a DNA test and she was not his. Well his sister says she only slept with one other person Chris. She said she doesn't want to tell him though because she's scared he will try and get custody. My husband's sister barely takes care of her daughter! When they stayed with us for a week I woke up with her daughter, my husbands mom would watch her 5 days straight, and whenever Ava wanted to play she would tell her to stop and put her in the playpen.. She moved back in with Brandon and he has been abusive to her and we have no idea if he has with Ava, but whenever they come to visit (they live in a different state) Ava will be scared of men.. She will freakout and start balling whenever a male tries to hold her and its scaring us. My question is should we tell the other guy that he might have a daughter? we aren't sure if its our place..
I would like to consider myself quite a strong person but a few mums at stans school just broke me down in tears, Ava is autistic and she was having a moment where to other people she looks naughty but she was just very frustrated and was crying because she wanted to go home as we had been waiting for quite awhile to get into stans school. She was trying to drop to the floor or run away from me and all I could hear was people making remarks saying that Ava is a brat, that I should be able to control her better. I'm used to Ava getting looks when we are out because of some things that she does or that she is not like most 3 year olds, but today just sort of was enough for me. I love Ava to bits she is literally my world and when people act like this because she's different really upsets me 😔
so right every night i bath Ava,feed her and we lay down.she lays on my chest until she falls asleep.why TF when i lay her down beside me she is now wide awake.mind you she was just knocked out while she was laying on me.its 3:20am.me and Ava are about to fight..! my current situation tho
Her helmet she got so she can be safe (as she told me) when she rides her bike and scooter lol
