I think they’re in order. Am I being unfair? We originally agreed when he got his job back in nov 2019 he would send $150 a week to help with childcare. I feel like that’s way less than what child support would be. But he has only sent $50 3x total. I kicked him out almost a year ago because his drinking was a problem he would beat me. Instead of getting sober here he moved to Texas with his parents. He blames me for not seeing his kids but he chose to move.
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It's time for court love. So sorry you're dealing with this bullshit 😭
You stayed so calm and kept to your point. I’d absolutely take him to court. I’m sorry you have to go through this.
Nope, just take him to court. It will casue a lot less stress and arguments. It’s not your fault he made bad life choices and also moved. Save all your conservations...I imagine the judge will not care for his bullshit.
I agree with everyone, take him to court and be done with it. My sister is dealing with somewhat of this same shit with her pos, soon to be ex husband. He doesn’t see his kids or really help out at all. She took him for child and spousal support so he has to pay but everything else Is like pulling teeth with him.
You are wasting time, just take it to court and cut out being the messenger. You will not have to rely on promises or get out of hand with numerous texting about the topic. You will only add drama and frustration which will not benefit anything.
Good luck💖👍
Thank you. I realize I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt. That’s my fault and I need to just do it. 😔
@tobyisthescrantonstrangler, some of us have been there. It is okay. Just make the steps to ease things and you’ll see that the children will get the benefits needed.
@icebergahead, I mean I’m doing ok on my own but I’d like to have help or some $ to put aside for them specifically. But yeah it seems like that’s the only way to get it done.
Stop messing around. Take him to court. Court mandate him to pay. Let them deal with his bitch ass and if he doesn’t pay he can rot in jail. I’m sorry this is happening 😔
I know I’ve feel like it is partly my fault for trusting he would contribute on his own. I need to get it done.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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My older son’s “father “ is like this &&& I dealt with it for 3 years trying to be nice then I just had enough. I took it to court.
I’m saying this to say, you can’t reason with the unreasonable, save yourself the stress&& do what you have to for your babies.