A week ago my ex husband sent me a court date for child support in the mail box that he is dragging me to court that he cant support his own children.... meanwhile he married again but with a 17/18 year old girl while his own ass is in his late 30's....
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
He going to say that he not gonna pay me alot in child support because his other kids and he know ways around child support is that stuff even true peoples advice??
How yu gonna argue with me because i find child support stupid af if the father takes his child has a roof over his head and food in his fridge when he has the kid why does he need to pay you so you have a roof over your head and your bills are paid isnt that your job as a mother. Not fair that a man has to make sure he has everything for himself and his baby at his place and take care of his baby mommas "bills". Smh. To each its own but to argue with me about my opinion. Tf get out my face with that bullshit.
Saw this on IG what do you think? It was a picture of a father soothing his newborn with his own nipple. Almost like he was trying out 'breastfeeding'.
So my babys dad blocks me and before that he told me to abort this baby. Like first of all im not going to abort my baby. 😡😡 Also before he blocks me says he wont help me at all and also said he will fight at court if i put child support. Then take my baby from me. He also threatened to harm me. Like "brujeria" 😂😂
Iqra·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)
And the divorce was done in June of 2019 and he got married in August
Mandy·
The new marriage is irrelevant to child support and visitation court hearings. Take a deep breath. I've been in your shoes and it's not a great feeling. Just focus on your kids from here on out. Let him take you to court so what. He'll make his bed when he's ordered to support his children. Make sure that you request it automatically gets taken from his paycheck and only communicate with him about the children from now on.
Iqra··
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)
Tthe biggest problem is that he waived his visitation rights
Mandy··
that's not really a problem. Just means his child support will be higher because you have them year round. Sounds like he's a dick.
Iqra··
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)
yeah he is