No. I have no family that can or will help me. They tell me I have to suffer through the consequences of my life actions. If I leave then I'm just running away from my own problems and I'm teaching my girls that it's ok to be a helpless coward.

@kaytibug2009, if you Decided to leave and be Courageous for your children ! Wow I really think your husband has deep mind control over you ,I was a young teen mom and married at 18& divorced his abusive controlling ass at 21 “so my only son at time would have a good ,safe ,loving environment to grow up “You don’t want your children to remember how Shitty it sounds like your husband is to you !

You would teaching YOUR GIRLS to know they don’t have to put up with a husband just because , or let him control you

@kaytibug2009, I’m so sorry. I think you need to speak to someone. I think you should seek couples therapy for you and your husband to at least find a way to co-parent. Being a parent isn’t easy, but I really think you need to reach out.

@kaytibug2009, #1 your kid’s need you happy inside yourself “YOU are their world ! #2 DON’T allow any man to make you feel like your a Slave or a Sex object “No one owns you & your body is yours! LET your voice be heard and don’t believe the words your man or your side guy whoever he is Say who you are as a Person ! Get yourself together ,make a plan get a job ,get stability in your life & I really feel you should sew &speak with a Professional ASAP ! Can you tell me what city or county your in and I can help you find services you need

@sherrynygirl I'm out around Texarkana... but I have no insurance or money for a therapist anyway. Plus my husband wouldn't allow it even if I could....