I know this app is about babies. But I have a 17 Yr old son and he's still my baby. He's not been himself lately. He was attacked in December in a completely random attack. However, he's just informed me that his depression has nothing to do with him and what happened to him. It's me! Well not me but my toxic relationship with my partner. I'm done now. I can't continue this knowing my children are suffering. Sorry for this post, just don't have anyone to talk to xx
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No the easiest thing to hear hun but I’m sure you will do the right then always here if u need a chat. X x x x
Im just about to message you. This is what happened to me march last year xx
Thanks so much girls. He's actually quite sad because he doesn't want to be responsible for the break up. I've assured him that he's done us all a favour and his happiness is a big thing to me xx
Not easy to hear but how amazing he has the confidence in his relationship with you to be so honest. Do you feel it’s a toxic relationship that you want to be free from?
@kimpton28, would you end the relationship?
I’m so sorry Hun and I know it’s not easy , but I think it’s a good job your son told you Atlest you can do something about it x
My mom divorced my stepdad when I was 18 and it was honestly the day I've been most proud of her and being brave enough to make that decision
I hear a lot of people say you shouldnt let your kids dictate your partner or your happiness but you were once that childs world and they see and hear and pick up on every little thing and it can impact a child, and a teenager who mulls it all over in their already hormonal emotional heads, so so much
Children definitely dictate your relationships and all major lifestyle choices you make, because as a parent their happiness is the most important thing to you 🙈
Oh that’s not easy to hear but hopefully it is a blessing in disguise maybe now you might have the determination to leave. Always welcome to inbox me xx
My mum and dads relationship was quite toxic when I was a teenager. They just didn’t get along but still stayed together and I couldn’t understand why. I became really anti social as I didn’t want any friends near my house. I’d just stay in my room all day and night and talk to friends online. I was so happy when I moved out and didn’t have to be around their arguments all the time! I never told my parents how I felt at the time and I wish I did. You should see it as a good thing that he’s told you how he feels so you can do something about it.❤️
Hope you’re okay and your children
My mum still calls me her baby at 23
Here if you need a chat xx
No advice but that can't be easy to hear your child say, no matter how old they are. Always here if you need a chat 💕
I hope you are okay. Your son obviously respects and loves you enough to open up to you. What happens next is down to you. You will do what's best for you and your kids xxx