I need opinions. I have two kids one from a previous relationship and one with my husband. I have been experiencing a lot of behavioral problems out of my son, the oldest he is 11. He has not seen or spoke to his father in about four years and the same for myself. Well today I reached out to one of my sons fathers cousins on fb, and told her would she please contact my sons dad I need to talk to him about our son. I didn’t know how it would go since we haven’t spoke in 4 years, but he actually reached back out and we had a civil conversation and he wants to reunite with my son. I come home and told my husband about what I did, and the shit hits the fan! He’s mad said he needed to leave before he regretted saying somethings. Am I wrong for reaching out to my sons father without my husband’s consent? I didn’t think I needed it when in came to something like that maybe I’m wrong?