it really does hurt me how i haven’t gotten any proper rest since my son been born. & his father is here with me. but instead of waking up when he cries, he will literally sleep through it all & get mad at me when i say things like “damn i wish i could sleep through his cry”.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
AF due 29th, anyone else? Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
Rant: my son is almost 16 months, yes, I whoop his butt when he runs from me when I try to change his butt or get him dressed, and yes, I spank his butt if he flips over during a diaper change, and yes I smack his hand when he hurts other people, and yes, it has helped a lot.
I couldn’t hold it together in front of my sons when we got to the car after my oldest sons doctors appointment. His doctor showed me his sleep test results and he mentioned about getting my sons adenoids and tonsils removed immediately and then getting another sleep test done to see if his sleep numbers will go down. When he told me that he had 9 pauses in his sleep really scared me the most
My son keeps rolling over and sleeping on his stomach when he sleeps, should I turn him on his back or let him sleep how he wants?
Hibben ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
Napping during the day when baby sleeps is the best advice I got with my first!
mybabybear ·
Мама сына (5 лет)
See this is why I’m scared to have any more kids. I refuse to be raising another all on my own. I have a boyfriend of 2 years who wants to have one in the future and I’m like nope. They like the fantasy of it, but when it comes down to doing the hard work they won’t. I think I’m too traumatized.
Wke'Chan··
Мама сына-младенца
they loooovvvveeeeeee the fact that they’ve become a father but when it comes to breaking their rest & actually having to get up over & over to do things you’re not use to it’s sooooo hard. no you have to learn to adjust
jeannie·
U can tell him to help you every other night! if he doesn’t want to! I had twin girls so my husband have to help me lolz!!!!!
ErikaK·
Мама двоих (младенец)
When breastfeeding, only one of you can do it really. My hubby always did the diaper changes at night. Adjusting to lack of sleep with your first child is rough! It gets better though 🤞
Wke'Chan··
Мама сына-младенца
i pump before i sleep just so he can just grab the milk & feed it to him. he don’t even do b the diaper changes i do it all.
ErikaK··
Мама двоих (младенец)
try to make a schedule! He gets up for the first feed, you do the next, etc. 😊
Wke'Chan··
Мама сына-младенца
i’ve done that too. he just doesn’t wake up.
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Мама троих детей
Girl just leave the baby there have all his stuff layed out leave and turn off your phone he’ll learn one way or the other
Wke'Chan··
Мама сына-младенца
i try to avoid an argument i don’t even want to have. i most do my mommy duties & don’t even talk anymore.
Your Worst Nightmare 😘··
Мама троих детей
ya but he helped you make the kid the least he could do is help from time to time it’s not all your responsibility 😩
Wke'Chan··
Мама сына-младенца
you’re absolutely right.
Elizabeth Hebert·
Мама двоих (младенец)
You need to talk with him about helping. He helped make the child, he needs to help care for him
Wke'Chan··
Мама сына-младенца
i have talked to him. he pick & choose when he want to do but mainly i do it.
Elizabeth Hebert··
Мама двоих (младенец)
keep talking. It has to click for him. My husband was the same way the first few weeks with our first
Wke'Chan··
Мама сына-младенца
it turns into an argument i don’t want to deal with. so i don’t say anything. i just do my mommy duties