I had mine 15 months apart an it wasn't easy an there is really nothing u can do but take the medicine they give u an do what u can an what u do now since baby will be so Young.. I had no help all my family lives out of state an it was totally hard but it will get better with the soreness about 3 weeks after you have the baby but it's good you're husband can stay with u the first week or so I unfortunately didn't have him here to help he had to go back to work after I got out the hospital just hang in there is all u can really do