Being Raped/Molested and/or Assaulted At A Young Age Forces You To Grow Up Fast 💯😞 some turn gay, some have sex issues, bad attitudes, trust issues, love too hard, live in fear, etc...Some grow a shell and Others Do Anything It Takes To Be Loved because most times we miss that part, we don’t understand and just want to feel 💗, Wanted 💔, Or Needed Because We Don't Know What We Did To Be Hurt The Way We Were😪 Most times it’s done by a person who is suppose to love you...a family member, a family friend, or maybe somebody who just took advantage of us & We Blame Ourselves For Things That Nobody Could Control 💯💯. Well Guess What I'm A Survivor Of It😞 I struggle daily, I get upset, I love hard, I get hurt easily, At times I’m very emotional, I hide behind my smile and depression is my thorn...
I Am NOT ashamed! I Am A Survivor!!!!
It wasn't my fault. And If it happened to you, it wasn't your fault either ❤
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I've had talks with people this was one of them
Idk. To be honest I think that sexually, you would either be attracted to the same sex already or be bisexual already. I do completely understand the need for safety and emotional security after abuse, but the sexual desire for the same sex must exist first.
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I'm also a survivor. My Step-dad. Ew, I hate even associating him with the name, "dad" Anyways, it's been 17 years since what happened to me happened, I'm 27 btw, and I'm still figuring out the reason I am the way I am is because of that trauma. I love quickly, I've never, not had a boyfriend, I've developed anxiety and depression, blamed myself, and had to deal with the guilt that my mom was cheated on by myself and her ex husband.. yes, I'm older now and can understand that it's not my fault but it still happened and have seen the rippling effect it's had. My brothers will never know their father and that's another thing I just can't help but feel guilty about. They were only two when my strong Mother left him. I pray everyday this never happens to my little girl. I'm so sorry for what anyone's ever endured and you're not alone.
I’m a survivor I been rape/molested and assaulted from the age of 5 until I was 15 by my brother/uncle/great uncle/cousins/friends of the family I have trust issues, sex issues, a bad attitude, when I love I love hard to feel love I did things that I’m not proud of trying to fix me but I understand that I’m broken and I live in fear. I’m damaged I never had childhoods it was stolen from me so I’m very overprotective of my daughter I pray that she would never feel this pain.
I'm so sorry all of you had to go through this. I have had a few minor bad experiences that have traumatized me & I still blame myself to this day for not speaking up or doing anything. I can only imagine how you all must feel. This is one of my worst fears for my children. You just can't trust anyone. I pray that somehow by God's grace you all will find peace in your life. No one should have to suffer like that. ❤😥 You all are beautiful & worthy of respectful love. Don't ever let anyone make you feel less than that.
A survivor as well, Thank you for this post. This along with other serious of an unfortunate events that happened in my life made me have anxiety and depression all my life. I live with the fear of it happening to my kids or to me again, It haunts you forever, Even when you seek for help.
Thankyou. We have to stay strong.i feel less than on a daily basis.
This post truly broke my heart. I’m so sorry for ALL of you 😔❤️
I’m a survivor as well. My own brother for that fact.
I can relate to you 100%.. I’m a survivor as well. I was sexually molested by my uncle for 4 years. He was finally put in prison for it, I’m here if you ever need to talk 💖
My best friend was molested for years. Recently she passed of a drug overdose turns out her father said to her “you liked what your stepfather did to you”. That night she OD’d alone in a motel room.
Omfg!! That poor girl! What the hell is wrong with people?! He should go to jail bc he may as well have just killed her. Saying something like that is unbearable to cope with for a person so broken already. What a sick mf!
I'm so sorry for the loss of your best friend. 😥
@onehotmess, I had to be talked out of finding him. I know where he lives, where he nods off on his couch. He himself is an addict. She was clean three weeks before she went to see her siblings. He also at one point blocked the door and wouldn’t let her leave.
@monstermommax3 😥 Sounds like he's broken too. Definitely don't waste your time or life on him.
I've had talks with people this was one of them
Idk. To be honest I think that sexually, you would either be attracted to the same sex already or be bisexual already. I do completely understand the need for safety and emotional security after abuse, but the sexual desire for the same sex must exist first.
They run to the same sex sometimes so yea gay is appropriate
@tiff.momma.love i know im more comfortable with same sex even tho im married to my hub.because men are capable of barbaric things
I almost agree with everything you said. Also a victim of sexual abuse. But no one 'turns' gay.