I had my Babyshower today and my baby’s father is upset with me because I ignored him all day. We live in different states so it wasn’t easy for him to attend. We made plans for him to come up here for the Babyshower but he spent his whole check and he didn’t request the day off when he said he did. I was upset about the lack of support and irresponsibility, so I tried my best to enjoy my day and ignored him. Now he’s acting like a victim and like I did something wrong for not wanting to be bothered. He says I excluded him from the day, but I feel like he excluded his self. Am I wrong for being really angry?
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Nope it probably won’t be the first time he does that to you typical loser always wants to play victim even tho your gonna have to push out a kid smh and then when your up all night and frustrated he will have the nerve to tell you get over it I bet 🙄
That was one of my points too. That showed me a lot
Nope sis , enjoy your day! It’s 2020 it’s time to take things for what it is & keep it pushing . Maybe just try to explain to him how you felt about the situation and see where it goes.
I tried. I was still “wrong”
Back in the day and still a lot now a days men didn't/don't attend baby showers at all so he's lucky he was even invited in the first place. Don't let him ruin your baby shower momma enjoy yourself and congrats on the little one.
It's his loss. Don't let him ruin your day cos he didn't make an effort to in the first place. He's only angry cos you enjoyed it without him
Sounds like it’s his fault. I would be angry. The jerk lied to you and said he took off
And he wasted all his money so he wouldn’t have been able to come anyway 🤦🏾♀️.
@winterbabymom, yup sounds like he didn’t want to be there and trying to make you look like the bad guy
I’m confused. He didn’t come to the baby shower? If he didn’t, why would he be mad at you for enjoying your day?? 🤔 what did he expect you to do, text him the whole time?
Nope he didn’t come and I wouldn’t pick up calls all day. I was upset and just wanted to enjoy my day. He felt left out but if he didn’t waste his whole check he would’ve been here for it.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
i’m honestly so upset. today was my boyfriend & i’s anniversary & i thought we would spend the whole day together but he decided to leave to go be with his friends. am i selfish for wanting him the whole day? :/
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
so i txted my bd an told him i might wanna move the shower to the park instead of his sisters house because of our arguement an he ignored me so now i will ignore him an not tell him when the baby actually comes. am i wrong??
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
Nope you enjoy your day, that’s his fault he didn’t come and spent his check on god knows what. If he wanted to be included he would of brought his ass to the shower. Smh have a great day