Serious question mom to mom... do you ever just look in the mirror & think to yourself, "why dont I look cute"?! Like I…

Yes I have felt that way I look at myself that way but recently I would make sure that I actually start doing her makeup getting dressed pretty changing how I normally would look at myself saying I look prettier today kind of put it in my head and I felt a lot better lately I mean I still kind of looking myself like ugh but I have been trying to get in the habit to change that.

i've felt like this last 2 months

I've felt this way. Social media can be so bad to people. It's alot of photoshop and face tune so it's like people will have perfect lives

I’ve felt this since becoming a mom. Pregnancy changes your body so much and so does time. I look in the mirror all the time and feel ugly or a mess.

I've felt like this since having kids.

Same! No longer a “hot mess” but a “room temp mess” 😂

Girl I feel this! My body has changed sooo much since having my son I’m just adjusting to it

I literally watch no music videos or tabloid when I feel like that

I feel this, especially since I didn't lose any weight with my first and now with my second I know I'll gain soooo much weight, especially since I'm always hungry. I'm not looking forward to the end result, but I'm happy I'm going to be a mom of two.

😒🙋🏽‍♀️ same

Maybe change your hairstyle or get some new clothes. I think we all feel like this sometimes but get the negative thoughts out of your head, your kids and your man think you’re beautiful that’s allllll that matters! Also- was thinking the other day, isn’t it crazy that our sweet babies don’t even care if we get dressed or brush our teeth, they just want us and love us unconditionally.

I feel this

I feel this so hard 😩

Yes, i will look at girls twice my size and be like, “she’s beautiful! She pulls off her look so well despite her weight.” And then I look at myself and nothing looks good on me! I feel frumpy. Also I won’t lose any weight but sometimes I look skinnier than other days... maybe bloating but I just don’t feel pretty anymore, mainly because of weight but I feel even after I lose I’ll still be unhappy.

I feel the exact same way. It's hard for me to get in the mood sometimes cause I just wanna hide.

Same and idk what it is but after having kids all my confidence left. This past year I’ve been trying to get it back and I have good days and bad but I still just feel so unattractive. I hate my body so much and Even have days when I look in the mirror and look at my face and just look blah. I’m always comparing myself to other women. I know I’m not ugly but I feel ugly.

I feel this 😭

Over time, as our bodies experience pregnancy and aging, our minds are groomed (via biofeedback courtesy of physical and psychological changed within the chemicals in our brain) to notice small changes to our physical appearance. Pregnancy changes the permanent shape of our noses, feet size and shape/size of our lips. Society changes and programs the way we think. Example, just because we're Mom's, we're no longer allowed to be sexy or desirable without having a label bestowed upon us. It's our jobs as women to find the happy medium or to find us again. Only you can do this. It's a mental block. You're a beautiful, sexy women, mother, human being. Trust me, I'm with you, I can pick out 16 flaws while never saying, I'm pretty. You have to find you. ❤️

Yes! I think it's the new mom body you get after having kids. I've always been small with not really a stomach and after having 2 kids I went from 110 to 130 and everything else got fatter around me. I don't feel beautiful, some days I try but then I see a younger or older mom who's skinny and really pretty and I'm like welp there goes my confidence.

Wow! Sounds exactly like my situation to a T!

Heck yeah I’m fat af lol I look disgusting

2020 is my year to lose 50lb!

Im the same way i feel ugly in i just dont feel pretty bo more and i just dont know what to do

Yeahh Been feeling this way more and more ughh.. it’s almost uncomfortable sometimes mentally