My husband has been nothing but irritating all he does is nitpick and nag and then asks why I'm in a…
My husband has been nothing but irritating all he does is nitpick and nag and then asks why I'm in a mood. He is my partner is some things but with parenting he wants the least amount of work possible. Then likes to throw it in my face that I'm a stay at home mom and he works so he shouldn't have to help me. I'm just beyond over it I feel really unappreciated and just really turned off by him. I've even told him how I felt about it but he says he does appreciate me and doesn't get why I get so worked up. Then goes back to nagging about anything he can. I have two kids at home and I do my best. I just feel like my mental health is just taking a hit and he just doesn't get that my mental health should matter to.
BunsInMyOven·
Try to explain to him in terms he’d understand. Ask him if he’d like his boss constantly following him around telling him where he’s doing a bad job. Remind him you don’t get the privilege of going to a job where you get acknowledged for what you do right that it often gets overlooked bc it’s so repetitive and you don’t get to clock out. They’re his children too. He needs to step it up.
Aylenrose··
I have told him that it hurts when he just nags me all the time and he never points out anything positive. He says he's just pushing me to do better. Both the kids aren't feeling good from their shots today and both running fevers and he's just sleeping.
RiaRia🙏❤·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 12 лет)
Love doesn't put others down, love uplifts. Where one lacks the other is willingly there to add. So if he is only thinking of himself truthfully where is the partnership? Run that by him.
Hope you feel better love.
ErikaK·
Does he work 9-5? Because then technically that should be your schedule too and both of you need to pitch in after 5 and on weekends. If you're a stay at home mom, your hours shouldn't be 6-midnight every day, that's just unreasonable.