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My husband got the job I didn’t want him to get, so it looks like we are moving. I am so torn up, and just overall…

My husband got the job I didn’t want him to get, so it looks like we are moving.

I am so torn up, and just overall unhappy about having to move there. I just feel like I don’t matter in the equation. His family is ecstatic about seeing him and my kids more, they don’t care about seeing me. His sister won’t even acknowledge me.

It’s overall a great move financially as he will be making 20,000 more a year. I just need my space and his family doesn’t give any space.

I can only hope things turn out okay.

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momma_of_1

Celia CМама дочки (5 лет)

I know my boyfriends older sister doesn’t acknowledge me either. But it pisses me off because she never wants to help out his family and my mil comes running to us as if we should do it.

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ekko

The EK 💋Мама сына (3 года)

Work with your husband to set some clear boundaries. What kinds of things have they done in the past that make you not want to be close?

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