Help!!! So I was going to secretly go pay and find out the gender of the baby tomorrow and wrap the ultrasound along with balloons in a box for Christmas and give it to my husband for Christmas should o go for it or just wait the 3 weeks ? I don’t kno why I keep debating about it
@manda_5times, I mean I just did the blood test. Idk about spending the extra money just to find out. I think he might get mad spending the extra money if things are right
@db413, are you still finding out the gender before him or without him ?
@manda_5times, yes I am. They are going to call me on Monday with the results and I’m going to give him a Christmas present with the gender reveal. He was mad at first because he wanted to find out together. But I told him I wanted to surprise him since this is his first kid and my second.
Maybe because he might be upset that you did that without him. It's a great surprise idea but I would be sure that he wouldn't mind it before you go ahead and do it
If I ask him then it won’t be a surprise
@manda_5times maybe get the results written down and have a friend that you trust to keep it to themselves do the balloons and get them all ready so when you open it it's a surprise for both of you!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I’m finding out early. And surprising him with a gift to tell him.