So I just got done telling my mother we are 90% sure we arent moving back upstate & now she might…
So I just got done telling my mother we are 90% sure we arent moving back upstate & now she might not be able to witness the birth of our daughter 😔. Plus my husband will have to be home with our kids during that time soo I'll be delivering our baby alone. I'm nervous & scared. It sucks!
Mind Yours·
Aw I’m so sorry to hear that hun ! No one else can come to you
Nikki ··
No sadly. Our families haven't offered & could careless on trying to help us. The only person I know would come is my mom but she doesn't think she'll be able to make it.
🌻·
I’m so sorry mama! I wish you were still here, I’d help you out! Good luck, you got this. You are a strong mama ❤️
Mandy·
You've still got time. Can you find a babysitter that the kids can get used to before the baby comes so your husband can be with you.
Nikki ··
I was literally just thinking about that! Im going to talk to my husband about it & see what he thinks, that might be our only option.
Mandy··
@mulatto.mama definitely look for someone that has transportation. Maybe a student at a local college or a teenager or young woman from a church. That way it'll be easier if you go into labor at night or get caught off guard and have the kids with you she can meet you at the hospital and pick them up.
Heather·
Awww Im sorry! Hopefully you guy find another solution
Mimi602·
Can she come visit? My mom lives in Georgia and she is coming out here to help me for a few weeks.
Nikki ··
She's thinking the only thing that would be easier for her would be to come visit after the baby's here. Theres no telling when exactly the baby would be here & she doesn't want to have to drop everything &
have to pay for a last minute ticket & she doesn't like the idea of staying up until the baby's here.
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
I was the same with my second my first was running all over the delivery room ...I didn’t have anyone either but maybe y’all possibly have a neighbor or someone you can trust if u don’t I totally get it it’s just a special time 😫
Kay·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
You still have alot of time to figure things out. Maybe phone a friend? Family is more than blood.
Nikki ··
Girl I wish I had friends, I literally only have family sadly & they can't even help out like family is suppose to do. I'm looking into a doula.