honestly..... you’re a complete idiot if you think your baby daddy not supporting your child…
honestly..... you’re a complete idiot if you think your baby daddy not supporting your child financially is OK!
honestly..... you’re a complete idiot if you think your baby daddy not supporting your child financially is OK!
A·
I mean, if you can support your kid on your own, why does it matter if the dad is invested in them? If he doesn't want to, and the mom is okay with it, what's the big deal?
A··
@dankerson the kid won't know unless the mother tells them. They don't "need" to know everything.
Lilo··
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
@mississippi.queen true but it says financially, so maybe the dad is involved just not money wise, and in that case the kid could find out. and even if the mom doesn't tell them a kid will ask eventually where's my dad or why doesn't dad get me anything when they see other kids with dads & buying them things
A··
Maybe. I'm just thankful I'm not in that situation.
Energizermama·
Мама четверых детей
That money can be used towards savings, for college, or emergency money for whatever the child may need. Too much pride, to take money from the dad if it’s for a child, is silly
Lilo··
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
right saving it would be so smart.
Energizermama··
Мама четверых детей
yes it’s a smart move. You can never be too prepared for the future and unexpected things that happen, where you’ll thank yourself for putting that money to the side.
Dani B·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (20 нед.)
Me and my sons father are separated and we both support our son financially at our own houses. I’ll ask for money if I really need help paying for daycare otherwise I do it on my own