this might need a trigger warning but it's really been heavy on my mind.
So it breaks my fricking heart to know that some people want kids but can't conceive like sometimes I literally feel guilty. It took a year of trying for both my daughter and son and I feel like I very well could have been in the same boat as those that can't have their own 😭 My uncle and my stepdad both want children but can't have them and also there's a security guard at the mall that my daughter just loves so much (she doesn't like any other strangers), he has such a good connection with her you'd think he's family and he said he loves kids and him and his wife are trying to conceive. Which is beautiful but I see a sadness in his eyes when she's playing with him 😔 and now that my belly is getting bigger I just try to avoid him because I can only imagine how that feels. I cry like twice a week thinking of those who want kids but can't conceive and have to see pregnant bellies and children every day. and it makes me even more thankful for my babies
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Understandable, I usually try to go to the mall when I think he's not working but I do let my mom and stepdad take her over there so she can see him. your comment reminds me of when I was hoping for a boy and every little boy I saw was just the most cute and handsome ever, they all would melt my heart
@dankerson exactly I'm like awe ur soo cute I want one, brightens ur day for a while
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
I find it very alarming when we see for MONTHS “My husband doesn’t want another child”...”He wants to wait”...”he won’t have sex with me”....and then you keep trying to conceive anyways and when you do get pregnant ask us all a cute way to announce it to him? This is entrapment....conceiving behind someone’s back then unveiling it as a gift seems so incredibly disturbing to me..
End rant.
It really is hard but I wouldn't ignore him sometimes tbat kinda stuff helps.
Iv been ttc for 2 years and it's sad seeing pregnant women or infants but in a weird way it also makes my day